We women are socialized to downplay our positive attributes, so that we settle for someone below us.

I'm here to tell you YOU SHOULD OWN IT.

If you're above average in looks, character, and/or intellect, you should absolutely be looking for someone who matches you.

There is nothing to gain from downplaying your own amazing self because society told you to do so.

Personally, I'm a compassionate person who has a lot of love to give. I currently work with children all day and my patience never runs out. Every child is a joy to see in their own way, regardless of their physical or behavioral conditions. Caring for patients for 12 hours a day is not easy, but if anyone can do it with a genuine smile on their face and a gentle, but effective approach, I can.

I've realized recently that this is an admirable quality and I should only be with someone who appreciates that and who also has a lot of love to give and isn't afraid to express it.