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[–]understatedalwaysFDS Disciple41 points42 points43 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s ok, sis! I too leveled up in my 30s. It’s never too late to respect yourself and expect nothing less than respect from the men to whom you chose to give your precious time.
[–]TheOGJammiesRuthless Strategist16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s insane the extent we have to do this to even be treated like a human being.
[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
never too late hun, u now have a great chance in landing better relationships coz u know better. im 29 and ik happy that i discovered this sub!
[–]even_thrillerFDS Apprentice13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m almost 31 and I’m just now leveling up in the past few years in my late 20s. You are not alone! Heck one of the guys in my rotation is 25 and the whole wall thing at 30 is total bull. Honestly I feel way more confident at my current age than I ever did in my 20s. I was far too insecure. You’re in plenty of fam sis!!!
[–]MuffinSongsFDS Disciple10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I understand your situation and my heart goes out to you. We got this!
[–]_HEDONISM_BOTFDS STRATEGY COACH8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've gone out with those before, too.
One of them apparently had a girlfriend. I didn't know because she wasn't on his social media profiles and according to the long, angry texts she sent me, they were together for 4 years.
Took me to a fancy restaurant in my city and apparently she saw the charge on his account. He paid. The social media drama was cringe to watch... Apparently all they did was Netflix and chill. She didn't know he had it in him.
I told her she could have and keep him. Not interested in a cheater. She was such a PICK-ME, I almost felt bad for her.
If she wasn't so rude to me,I might have helped her out with some advice but they're both blocked
Classic pick me.
[–]leadsinlight1FDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m 31 f! So I’m right there with u! Made every mistake in the book! Your not alone sister! Your right life is short! Time to change it up
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