The Code

redbirdflies · 2020-07-19T17:49:14+00:00

It’s such a huge red flag when they complain about their exes and want you to commiserate with them in their inability to let go because, of course, he was perfect and anyone that left him is trash 🙄

If he’s doing it to other women, he will do it to you.

Equipoisonous · 2020-07-19T19:02:46+00:00

This reminds of a dating app convo that left me feeling like he was waving red flags but I couldn't really articulate why.

Him: You seem like one of the few that seem to be looking for what I'm looking for?

Me: What are you looking for?

Him: Someone who is interested in pursuing a relationship instead of just bouncing from one guy to another. Not only that but you seem interested in having intellectual conversation rather than just talking about what bars you like to go to.

Like I get what he's saying but it also comes off like he's putting down other women. Also on his bio he had "I'm trying to find a relationship with someone that will like me for exactly who I am."

MakeURegret · 2020-07-20T13:43:07+00:00

Hate the “cool girl” stereotype that promotes this attitude. Luckily was able to mainly stay away from it.

Working hard to not block my own shine no matter what.

Title	The Code
Author	East90DownandBound
Upvotes	43
Comments	8
Date	July 19, 2020 5:21 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hu44rw/the_code/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/the-code.716121 https://theredarchive.com/post/716121

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