I’ve been talking to this guy who I would considered a HVM (for now) since November. We decided to take things slow and not rush completely into dating ONLY because he was going to boot camp at the beginning of January. I’ve been following this sub and I’ve applied most of the rules so far. He’s paid for the dates, except one time that I paid (only because it was his birthday and I wanted to pay, nothing else was gifted). Unfortunately I did mess up and ended up sleeping with him before he left for boot camp. He comes back in a couple of months but I want to make sure that he knows that at that point I want to be exclusive. He did mention before that he was planning to ask me when he comes back. I obviously plan to not sleep with him again until he makes things exclusive and if he doesn’t, then I plan to kick him to the curb. But is there anything else I could do to make sure that he’s aware that I want to be exclusive when he comes back? What signs should I look that show he might be a LVM?