There’s been a lot of miscommunication about what constitutes a high value man. A lot of useless men think they’re high value because they just assume they should be and so act entitled to sex, attention and care from a woman.

A common misconception is that while women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. The main, important caveat here is that while most women actually are the gatekeepers of sex due to women’s inherent sexual attractiveness, a lot of men aren’t gatekeepers of commitment. Because while most men are attracted to most women at baseline, most women simply aren’t attracted to most men at baseline.

A man cannot be a gatekeeper for commitment if no woman wants commitment from him in the first place.

“You’re the gatekeeper of commitment” is the delusional cope that low value tell themselves to make themselves feel better. While IRL, a lot of them can’t even get one woman to look at them twice, let alone gatekeep or make determinations about whether or not the relationship would exist.

So without further ado, let’s get into it. This is what constitutes a high value man:

  • A man that is respectful, loyal and faithful
  • A giving man that pays for dates and a relatively higher proportion of expenses in the relationship
  • A man that is confident, consistent and reliable
  • A man that listens to what you say and tries his best to do as you ask
  • A man with a good, sustainable job
  • A man that appreciates you and shows you that he loves you
  • A responsible man that keeps his word
  • A man that takes care of his body, his face and his physical appearance
  • A man that cares about your sexual pleasure and goes down on you regularly without being asked
  • If you’re interested in having children, an attentive, responsible father and caretaker

What is NOT a high value man?

  • A “player” that does not respect your boundaries
  • A loser that expects you to go dutch on dates, especially the initial dates
  • Participates in sexually degrading acts for the sole purpose of humiliating you
  • An unemployed bum
  • A cheat, with or without STDs
  • A man that does not respect you, listen to you or derives joy in ignoring you
  • A man that mocks your appearance to your face and to others around you
  • A man that thinks feminism or women fighting for their rights is toxic or wrong
  • A man that expects you to submit to him
  • RP men
  • Incels
  • MGTOWs

A queen or a high value woman knows how to identify a worthy equal man worthy to be called a king. If he prefers to be a fool instead, treat him like one and tell him to get the fuck out of your way.