Areo Magazine, though mostly very good at criticising identity politics in general, lately neglected gender issues a bit. In this article, they're back with a vengeance. The title is a bit provocative; actually the author pleads for doing away with both terms 'toxic masculinity' and 'toxic femininity' and for seeing all people as individuals.

https://areomagazine.com/2021/01/26/social-justice-culture-and-toxic-femininity/criticizing