I have said this before, and many agree, the solution for getting our voices heard starts with us. We allowed ourselves to get steamrolled and now we are going to pay the price.

Here is the perfect example - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i4wsroYlu2A&ab_channel=Aba%26Preach

This person, allowed, several women who were clearly toxic into his life, and then back into his life. He essentially allowed that behaviour, he condoned it, he supported it and when their relationship ends, she will think her behaviour is acceptable.

We need to stop allowing our emotions to get the better of us. More precisely we need to stop allowing women to get away with behaviour that is simply wrong.

Saying that, doesn't make one an incel or a women-hater. It is simply asking for fairness and critiquing the current system. Further, saying that for hundreds of year's women were oppressed only pivots away from the current conversation thus never solving anything.

You should call women out, you should file charges against them, etc.

I keep seeing all the posts here, but, we won't ever get any progress circle jerking around. You need fight fire with fire to actually win. Better allies, more movements, and most importantly more solidarity.