21 year old here. How do you combat the constant internal battle to get laid?

MadPreacher1AD · 2018-01-20T08:10:32+00:00

Masturbate a lot and think about how much pain and misery women have wrought.

iamheisyouareme · 2018-01-20T08:27:33+00:00

Fap a lot. You’ll be fine.

Any time you get that urge to bang some chick, just remember: porn has a little x up in the corner for when you’re done, and women don’t. So, yeah, porn wins.

SheikUrbouti · 2018-01-20T08:30:08+00:00

It gets easier with age. Just don’t cohabitate with a woman and be honest with your intentions. There’s something about keeping your conscience clear.

Enlightened_Monk · 2018-01-20T08:31:11+00:00

I'd suggest picking up a fleshlight or two or three! They do the trick, and you can get back to your studies at your leisure.

BigBenIsAwesome · 2018-01-20T09:29:18+00:00

23 year old here. Not CS but Civil Eng.Date them(really) or get tinder tinder. Just make your intentions clear very quickly. Same problem, Russians are hot AF. Date them but don't commit.

jchang23 · 2018-01-20T11:51:31+00:00

Since you study Physics I figured it's good you know that Sir Issac Newton died a virgin, it's ok!

I am sure he masturbated and even was able to predict with accuracy how far his load will shoot and the quantity of sperm based on a complex mathematical formula that involved the size of his balls, his diet, amount of blood flow to his penis X the precise measurement of the erection.

I suggest you try mastering that and publish a paper with the formula. It will not only help you, but it will help all of humanity because scientists everywhere will try to disprove your formula and that means they will be spending less time with women.

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/09/isaac-newton-facts-physicist_n_4058836.html

bestpractice1 · 2018-01-20T08:26:55+00:00

Hanging out with and helping out a wise and/or sober and/or old man will help you to gradually develop the patience and clear intellect needed for self-control.

Laughing_Breeze · 2018-01-20T09:54:42+00:00

Masturbate frequently and remind yourself of the damage that a woman could wreak upon your life should your will falter.

SheikUrbouti · 2018-01-20T09:02:01+00:00

You haven’t responded to me yet. You’re begging for attention like a woman. Is your bitch ignoring you?

mgtowliberdade · 2018-01-20T10:31:37+00:00

I jerk off, have a fleshlight, and use hookers once a month (legal here).

Outside of this moments I notice women in sexual ways very rarely and mildly.

hypedPitt · 2018-01-20T11:54:14+00:00

Flirt with girls, treat them with respect and tell them you want no relationship, then you'll get laid. That's healthy also for your mind and help you to develop your social skills. That's something you might need to develop your career.

Just don't get into a relationship. Girls in college want also to experiment and enjoy sex, so you won't harm no one.

secret626 · 2018-01-20T12:22:14+00:00

Hire escorts. Be a monger. Even twice a month will be enough. Let's say it is 200 USD in US. Twice a month, it is 400 USD, not much.

About illegal thing: Thousands of men hiring escorts. Just go for it: r/Hookers

2018-01-20T08:22:03+00:00

*Mate

Mchooofer · 2018-01-20T13:11:56+00:00

you have a belief that says sexual energy equals women.. but thats just one way you can channel that energy. Once you realize "for yourself" that this rich energy can help you pursue the life you dream about and have all the desired realities you wish for.. If you dont live this now.. you are either ignorant or not following your passion in life. ALot of people choose carriers and jobs because of the status and money, which they think will get them the perfect partner and feel sexually fulfilled and what not.. But that is just unconscious living and wont get you anywhere really.

Or maybe you have some hidden desire for women that you wont acknowledge for whatever reason. Either way,... be honest with yourself is the most important thing regardless.

KingreX32 · 2018-01-20T18:06:00+00:00

Come here everyday and read the horror stories. That should set you straight.

Rhodesius · 2018-01-20T08:54:48+00:00

I'm 21 as well. I'd recommend depression and masturbating at least twice a day.

DrRedPaint · 2018-01-20T11:20:38+00:00

Find a quiet place (rest room) and masturbate.

Mad_Maddin · 2018-01-20T18:54:05+00:00

I have similar things with the point of my university featuring more than 50% Asian population with me having a thing for Asian people.

But I personally have to say, that I simply don't feel the need for it. Like it would take a lot more for me than just seeing a beautiful girl to be all over it. I actually can't really help you. Maybe try to develop some (for most people) strange fetishes so you don't get all that aroused just by what most people consider sexy?

NEOLIBERALS_SUCC · 2018-01-20T19:02:38+00:00

Tell them about your major. You'll never have to worry about having a chance with any of them. /s

But seriously, after you move on to graduate school, the undergrads will look like children and your libido will drop quite a bit. Plus, you'll be so damn busy with studying and research that sex will hardly ever cross your mind.

mgtowalt · 2018-01-21T18:44:54+00:00

Most likely this will be a bit on an unpopular opinion around here. But I say; don't let some of the idealogues around here get in the way of you experiancing your sexual prime. I think its okay to date women especially at your age. Use the red pill and mgtow knowledge you posses to experiance how they are for yourself. Look for the red flags and have fun with their shit tests. Always use protection. If you find that either they or you are getting attached disengage. Just some food for thought.

Devil_Nights · 2018-01-20T09:59:23+00:00

If you wanna try and get laid, go for it. Just be prepared for all the bullshit you will have to deal with.

otcel · 2018-01-20T12:45:58+00:00

Fleshlight or similar

SpeaksTruthToPower · 2018-01-20T15:09:55+00:00

Masturbate until you're impotent. Your mind will be clear as deep space because it's uninhibited by our ridiculous reproductive drive. Of course, as a healthy young man, the desire will return.

Repeat as needed to keep your mind clear.

2018-01-20T15:21:39+00:00

Not sure man. Its pretty tough honestly. Probably one of the toughest situations one can be in as far as firstworldproblems go. I say probably sign up for a couple dating apps. Bumble is better i think, but i havent used it in a while. If you are a good looking dude you’ll gwt what you want, if you aren’t, then your self esteem will take enough of a beating to lower that libido to almost nonexistant levels, among other issues.

BrutDard · 2018-01-20T15:34:23+00:00

The longer I go without sex the more ravaging it becomes on my mental state.

If it hurts your mental state then you need to find a way for sex. Maybe tinder?

no_gal_friend · 2018-01-20T15:39:47+00:00

when I was much younger, I would fap all day long and watch porn. Once I got relieved from fapping and cleared my head, I can do my OWN things by myself. Its still a lot better than having to hang out with her and deal with her bs. I don't have to take some girl out to some dinner or movies or shopping. saves me a lot of time, though obtaining porn itself does a lot of time as well, though.

In my opinion I do NOT recommend drugs nor surgery. Just keep your original equipment and chemistry.

Futureman999 · 2018-01-20T17:19:13+00:00

You can hook up if you want and still be MGTOW. Just don't cohabitate or marry.

WoahScienceCool · 2018-01-20T17:24:22+00:00

Thailand. Namely, Pattaya and Bangkok.

Im at the tail end of a one month trip- two weeks in Bangkok and two weeks in Pattaya- and I have without fail fucked a different girl literally every day since New Years Eve, beautiful drop dead gorgeous women for roughly $30-$60 a pop. One month in Thailand can satiate you for an entire year. Dont know what your circumstances are but for the love of God find a way to get over here.

BreathGenie · 2018-01-20T17:25:58+00:00

Don’t even look at them. Keep your sight down when you walk. If an ass or even mane of hair enters your vision, look away. If your hormones start acting up, remind yourself that she wants to do that to you, to make you SUFFER. How can you desire someone who wants to make you suffer?

squidracer · 2018-01-20T18:23:08+00:00

I got a big screen 4k tv with internet browser of course

micestorff- · 2018-01-20T18:28:03+00:00

with porn and waifus.

AwarePerception · 2018-01-20T18:31:49+00:00

Do you still desire sex after fapping? If not, then it's obviously not worth it. Don't do it.

Just imagine all of the shit that you have to deal with when you're with a woman, and not to mention the possibility of pregnancy and STD's.

DJDickJob · 2018-01-20T19:18:15+00:00

How to combat the constant internal battle to get laid: Step 1- Get laid. Step 2- Have a baby, get married, get divorced, lose half your shit. Step 3- Kill yourself because you ruined your life.

Or, just think about Step 3 and don't ever do Step 1 or Step 2.

aerofapengineer · 2018-01-20T19:59:03+00:00

Get your mind off women. Train yourself to not look at them.

Meditate, Read books, solve math, physics, programming problems. The goal here is to concentrate on other things than what your body is trying to force you.

Don't fap and especially don't look at porn. Don't waste your life force, redirect it to something valuable.

wawakaka · 2018-01-21T03:01:18+00:00

cold shower...

Voltron666 · 2018-01-21T06:42:04+00:00

Go home, fire up the compooter & rub one out... pop a coldy and then later rub a second smaller one out....

eightgaydiamonds · 2018-01-21T11:32:48+00:00

Wait it out.

bonusfruit · 2018-01-21T14:20:03+00:00

Save $3k. Plan trip to tijuana. Fuck hot bitches legally for $60-$90 a nut for a week or 2. Come back refreshed and focused. Repeat twice a year

Borofill · 2018-01-22T06:08:01+00:00

Get your jimmies snipped and bang anything you can.

s0ma_ · 2018-01-21T02:31:29+00:00

terabytes of pr0n

popz2049 · 2018-01-20T19:41:02+00:00

Get laid just protect yourself, mentally and physically.

boldisold · 2018-01-20T23:54:11+00:00

Dude you are 21, go out and get laid.

Just remember to never be emotionally involved with anyone, avoid relationships and marraige at all costs.

TasteMySith · 2018-01-20T12:38:29+00:00

Everybody is suggesting masturbation, but I'm actually suggesting the opposite! NoFap will make your sex and porn addiction fade away and then you won't even care about sex anymore. Check out r/NoFap

Title	21 year old here. How do you combat the constant internal battle to get laid?
Author	iamheisyouareme
Upvotes	46
Comments	90
Date	January 20, 2018 8:09 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/7rp6lz/21_year_old_here_how_do_you_combat_the_constant/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/21-year-old-here-how-do-you-combat-the-constant.604652 https://theredarchive.com/post/604652

Comments