A question.

FordGourde · 2018-08-26T21:21:23+00:00

You'll learn as you get older.

Hypogamy · 2018-08-26T21:22:07+00:00

The eagle doesn't understand why the gazelle hates the lion until it can no longer fly.

801735 · 2018-08-26T21:23:48+00:00

2 young to comprehend imo. Why not go to some other sub instead, somewhere appropriate for a 13yo?

_OHReally_ · 2018-08-26T21:53:40+00:00

You're thirteen. You'd be lucky to have that many pubes, so I'll be gentle.

You have yet to experience was an adult experience in a relationship. For you, you're dealing with crushes and getting boners at tits on the internet. You have the excitement of the first kiss. the first titty suck, the first finger bang and the first fuck to still come your way. And your hormones are telling you this is all righteous shit. And it is. Go wild with it.

But wait til you get your heart and head caved in, through no fault of yours, but because women have certain behavioural patterns. You'll spend a while wondering what you did wrong, how you'll do better next time, all that shit, until you realise that there isn't much you can do. I promise you this - one day, a woman will crush you. Far beyond what you could imagine was possible. And there's only so many times you can do that experience before you realise you need to stop this shit to save your sanity.

MGTOW isn't about hating women, although there's no shortage of us having a laugh at the dumb shit they do around here. But it's just shitposting, done for giggles. We don't hate women. We just live lives where they aren't involved in our decision making. We don't chase them, we don't want them interfering with our lives and we don't support how society is caving in to their every desire because it's the politically friendly thing to do.

You can't see it yet, but the politics you face as you get older are designed to crush men into a kind of servitude. We'd rather just get about the business of living our own lives without people pissing in our bed.

We're not angry at women. It's like getting angry the sky is blue. Some things are just what they are.

I'll leave you with a very common fable, you may have heard it before, but if not, you might get something from it.

There was a flood. The animals were escaping, and as a frog was swimming away, he saw a scorpion call him over, and ask for a lift to get away. The frog says no, why would I do that? You'll just sting me and I'll die. The scorpion replies with why would I do that? If I do that, we both drown. The frog agrees, the scorpion jumps on, and halfway across the scorpion, bam, stings the frog right between the eyes. And as they were sinking, the frog asks why did you do that? And the scorpion says I'm a scorpion, what did you expect?

You're young. You are yet to see the way of things. In time, you will. You have many ways to handle the things to come, here is just one of those ways. But never get too idealistic about the world, my friend. It has a nasty habit of kicking your teeth in when you least expect it.

SaltTax · 2018-08-26T21:46:57+00:00

Son of a single mother detected.

anongogogo · 2018-08-26T21:23:16+00:00

Dig deeper young one.

butbutbuttwhat · 2018-08-26T21:45:37+00:00

I always hated this answer when I was your age, but it's true in this instance, you'll understand when you get older. When kids are 13 they don't really live in the "real world" quite yet. As someone who had the self awareness of an adult back then I can tell you to pay attention to the interactions between boys and girls and continuously take mental notes. Almost all truths in life are self evident and will reveal themselves to you in time.

re_all · 2018-08-26T21:50:10+00:00

You are 13.

Are both your parents married, and / or together? If so, are they happy? Do they yell, fight, and scream?

You are 13.

You know what the internet is. Are your schoolmates in happy families? Are their parents married? Do you see the internet posts they make about their parents? Or perhaps even see them for yourself?

You are 13.

You never had to work to eat, sleep, or ensure that tomorrow will have food and comfort. It is given to you. The responsibility of the real world robs people of any sort of naivety and gentleness towards the notion of "love" that your TV / Internet / and music blares at you nonstop

You are 13.

And like the rest of us, you will learn... and you will remember this moment and think that you were a fool.

ZedFour_S23 · 2018-08-26T21:54:05+00:00

I don’t hate women. I’m just not going to walk into the deathtrap called marriage and neither should you.

DJDickJob · 2018-08-26T22:04:19+00:00

If you spend more time on here you'll realize that MGTOW isn't a strictly defined religion, it's like a flexible religion that revolves around a central point, like how Christianity, Islam, and Judaism are different in a lot of ways, but they all still believe in a God. The thing we have in common here is that we recognize the dangers of women and the rewards of avoiding them. I'm sure some of the people here do hate women, but there are plenty of us who don't.

Honestly I think most of the guys who relate to MGTOW realize that the us vs. them part is actually more on the girl side, in the sense that men tend to invest more into women than women will invest in us. So MGTOW is basically on the defensive. Women, by nature, can't fend for themselves in the wild, so they evolved to be dependent on men, because like it or not, men are a lot better at getting shit done. So females tend to love us for what we can do for THEM, rather than who we are. Every single girl alive on this planet right now comes from a long line of other girls that were the best at using sex and mental manipulation to get a man to become their protector and provider.

I have no problem with happy couples, good for them. But the thing is, that happy couple might turn into a nightmare for the guy and ruin his life, and then he might end up homeless, broke, in jail, or killing himself. Might sound crazy to you because you're young, but it happens often enough to make guys decide that women aren't worth the risk.

I'm glad you're curious, just understand that MGTOW isn't about hating women, it's about living for yourself and not letting women get in the way of your journey.

cryptotim70726 · 2018-08-27T04:22:32+00:00

No one here hates women. We simply understand they are slaves to their animalistic nature. Evolution is what caused them to be the way they are. Apathy, greed, and narcissism have kept them that way.

whoomprat · 2018-08-26T22:31:59+00:00

Dont let this sub influence you. Everybody's got their own history heavily influencing how they see the world.

There's a ton of great women out there. Make sure you stick up for yourself and are fair in the relationship. Dont feel like you have to be in a relationship but you want to.

Good luck.

Title	A question.
Author	13and200lbs
Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	August 26, 2018 9:20 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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