I once dated this very attractive girl. I mean, men would stop talking and stare at her when she walked into a room kind of attractive. Now I feel I am average... average height, build, looks. What I do have is a magnetic personality. Most people are drawn to me and I can make them laugh. I am also confident.

I was introduced to this girl by a mutual friend and on the first date she suggested an expensive restaurant. Red flag. But like a Beta Bux I said okay and took here there. I immediately realized that I do not want to spend that type of money on a girl that I just met, so I stopped initiating contact. A funny thing happened. She started contacting me more and more and during one conversation she said "You are not like all the other guys. You never try to reach out to me." This made her way more attracted to me.

Now the reason I said "accidental" is because I wasn't trying to play the Alpha male game and not "chase" her. I just did not want to spend any money! It was more of a self preservation move than a "get her attracted to me" move. I inadvertently learned a very important lesson. Suffice it to say, we slept together. The very first time she said, "I don't want to do this unless you love me." With a straight face I looked her in the eyes and said "I love you." Ha. Really opened my eyes.

On a side note, she had a dog that would sleep in her bedroom. When we were doing missionary one time, it tried to lick my butt hole. I've had a fun life.