Hello,

I am not sure if women are allowed to post here or not (please delete if not). I need advice on how to communicate with my partner. I love him and I don’t want our relationship to end but, I feel sincerely mistreated. For awhile I thought it might just be a culture issue (he is Chinese and I am black) but, now I think it is a MGTOW issue. Ever since he started his business he has been really mean to me. He cheated on me when so was pregnant, made me go through the abortion alone and cheated on me again afterward. He had taken to yelling at me for really small things and behaving as if I am in his way. When so try to bring these things up with him he refuses to apologize and say I am throwing emotional tampons at him (whatever that means?). But, He will lose him temper if I treat him the same way. Is there a way I can bring these things up with him so that he will listen and not feel attacked ? I really don’t want our relationship to end but, I am just not seeing a future in it tight now.