I wanted some advice on my current situation.

I'm good friends with a girl I used to like, but recently I started to learn some facts about her that don't seem all that positive. Firstly, she's a feminist (not radical) and she hangs out with a lot of male 'friends', although I would guess she's closest to me. I don't like her female friends because they're all hypergamous to a fault. Since I'm still pretty young (16), the females tend to spin circles around the males. The previous friend group I had was a bunch of guys all vying for the attention of the three females (my friend's friends) in the group. It was so frustrating to never have an actual conversation where anyone cared about what I had to say, or even about making any meaningful points. I stopped hanging out with them, and now I'm friends with a bunch of guys (no females) who talk about random intellectual (politics, etc) topics.

Anyway, I've noticed that she's started to complain more. She talks about how she has no friends she can relate to, but doesn't put in the effort to actually hang out with who she wants to. I get the feeling I'm being used as an emotional tampon. I feel compelled to try and entertain her (I'm an introvert, so this is kind of hard), but she doesn't seem to respond. I've seen the way she acts around other guys (probably because of their higher SMVs and better social status) and it's like she's begging for them to reward her.

We totally differ on politics, and she's hypocritical sometimes. Her irritation when I talk to another girl instead of her is palpable.

She annoys me, honestly. But I would say we've had quite a few good conversations over the past six months, and it seems like we're good friends. I've had to rethink that opinion, and I don't know what I should be doing now. Learning about MGTOW has made this female trickery really obvious to me, but I don't know what to do about it.

Truthfully, I guess I could put it this way.

I'm the beta provider she's got on the waiting list. She'll find a bunch of alphas to toy with her, and when all's said and done, I'm going to be the one who throws the pity party. She's slowly trying to change my politics and thought patterns so that I'm well groomed to be her goddamn slave. Man, I figured that out writing this.

I think one of the final nails in the coffin for this friendship is her attitude when I hang out with other girls, one of whom is clearly attracted to me. She hates it, but would never say so. She isn't encouraging when I pursue other females, saying things like 'maybe you're too impatient for a relationship'. I don't know, man.

To clarify here's a little background on me:

  1. I live in India, and males massively outnumber females (hypergamy is rampant).
  2. I'm a 16 year old guy who dates infrequently, and short-term only.
  3. I would say I'm above average attractiveness. I'm short and appearance-wise slightly above-average, but relatively intelligent and athletic.

What would you guys advise me to do about dating in general? Should I date less or not at all? Should I try to gain experience so that I learn female nature better up close?

EDIT: I read the comments and decided to ignore and dash for a while. Talked to other female friends around her. She'd walk over, say nothing and then walk away again. Pretends to be sleepy/tired/upset, because she knows I usually respond to that and give her attention. Not this time. I'm genuinely surprised that she doesn't go talk to anyone else. Credits to ThrowThrowThrone for making it obvious that she really is boring and has nothing to offer. Damn. It's crazy I didn't notice this before, but it's always other people who are entertaining her, not the other way round.

When I was writing this post, I had to come up with a reason for being friends with her in the first place. I always thought there were plenty, but when I actually asked myself, all I got was 'good conversations'.

Another interesting point about a different girl. I flirted with her and got close, sensing that she liked me. She said no (her reason was something about not being ready for a new relationship because her old one left her so heartbroken). Later, when I become the beta-bux property of girl no.1 , girl no.2 suddenly starts coming on to me again.

Well then.