Hey all. I’ve been interested in MGTOW content for a couple years now. Channels like Sandman and TFM really put female nature into perspective for me.

I’m a 30 year old male. I’ve been in 3 relationships total, just hit 5 years with my current relationship. I’ve been unsatisfied for a while now. I don’t necessarily mind being a provider in a relationship. I just feel that my hard work goes unappreciated. I also am getting this sexual urge to explore other possibilities.

Anyways I never felt a spark in this relationship. We met online. She had more profile hits on her first day on the site than I had in 4 years. Imagine that. She didn’t even have a filled out profile when she left me a message. We were both in a bad place when we met. She just got cheated on and I was in incel monk mode for 4 years. Meaning I tried to get laid and always ended up getting used... pretty fucking hard. My previous girlfriend got knocked up with another guy’s kid when I was with her. You can say that my trust in women is nonexistent at this point.

I explained all this to my friend, saying that I’d honestly like to screw around with younger women and enjoy the moments I missed out on when I was being a white knight try hard. He told me that due to my age I need to start being realistic. I’m an average looking guy. Can be emotional once someone gets past my barriers. I have a strong work ethic and have a decent paying job for not going though school. I don’t have to worry about money at least and have no debt. My biggest downside is not being strong socially.

Is it too late for me to seek out casual flings with women in their early to mid 20s or has that ship sailed? Should I count my blessings and try to salvage what I have? While it isn’t a perfect relationship it’s very safe and secure... boring even. She’s pressuring me about children and getting a house. Not sure if we’re on the same page about that, haha.

Thanks for reading!