I love reading all the horror stories so I feel fortunate my life isn't that bad (it is but could always be worse) when I feel depressed the first thing I tell myself I'm fortunate I never married or got someone pregnant. I will be homeless in 3 months and finding employment is hard here in Netherlands due to lockdown. But so glad I don't have any alimony obligations. Reading this sub confirms I made the right decision. My last relationship was in 2013. And all my 4 relationships ended the same way. I finally understood the pattern and realized the juice wasn't worth the squeeze for me personally. Sorry for the incoherent rant but I felt like it.