Being part of this community has helped me with being in love with someone I’m not compatible with. We used to date which is how I know it wouldn’t work but I’m still in love with her. I joined this subreddit because I heard good things about it, and since then my entire mindset towards women has changed. I don’t hate women, I respect women who have earned my respect. But I’ve learned to put myself first and work on myself instead of chasing something I can’t have. So even though I still love this women, I’m happy and content with the way my life is and how I’ve progressed in the last few years without feeling like I need this women I love to be happy.