Any of you identify with this? I never put it into words but another post on here saying “women take kindness for weakness” kind of made me think of this.

Ever since i can remember I’d call myself quietly powerful. I am always calm and reserved and observant. Many people i come across i give them room to hang themselves. The same goes for women.

I guess if you thought of it like a character in a movie it would be like eddy murphy in coming to America. Where he’s a king but doesn’t show it.

I felt like I’ve actually been that way my whole life. And i guess what has always happened is that the majority of people i meet are unable to recognize this.

I have one friend who gets it, and i encounter people here and there who get it. But basically it’s like holding the keys and watching people present themselves before you give the keys to them.

Unfortunately 99% of people fail these tests. They just don’t have a certain level of awareness. Women are the biggest offenders. It’s funny because you can be “Christian grey” (not saying I’m even close) but women would just let him slip through their fingers because he may not overtly present himself.

Intellect and patience are gone.