Can’t convert yet

MothMonsterMan79 · 2020-01-21T19:30:29+00:00

Most of time the family is going to turn their backs on the elderly anyway. How many people are in rest homes, or living alone, with family, especially sons / daughters nearby that never visits them?

strongandhappy · 2020-01-21T19:37:02+00:00

Not if you've spent your life learning to love your own space. Now if you've spent your life devoted to family that ends up dumping you in a facility they visit once a year, yeah, I'd feel lonely af.

PrinceRaj53 · 2020-01-21T19:45:51+00:00

Can’t convert yet

Last time I checked, we are neither a cult nor a religion.

you will be lonely if you never get married

I have seen many, way many stupid arguments on this sub against mgtow. But this is probably the most stupid and childish one I have ever seen. I mean, c'mon now mate. You are a grown up adult. Do you really need us to explain why this argument is childish?

How does loneliness have anything to do with marriage/LTR?

Old_snowboarder · 2020-01-21T19:33:14+00:00

That's not an argument - that's a possibility, one amongst many. Being lonely when elderly is not inevitable whether you're single or not.

riksfork · 2020-01-21T19:38:29+00:00

Dude, I get lonely every now and again and admit that I have cried a few times in the last few years, but then I remember how much effort and cash it takes to even try to find a unicorn and they are few and fucking far between and I get over it quickly. I’ve never been married but used to get pretty hot and nice women. But even the hot nice one’s were too much work for me. Got a dog and she fills the void for companionship. If I don’t get laid again in this life, I really don’t fucking care. Jerk off and go back to doing what you like to do.

When I’m really old, I think I’ll care even less. Peace.

firehorns · 2020-01-21T19:29:20+00:00

Get used to being lonely, historic probs require historic solution

tablett379 · 2020-01-21T19:36:41+00:00

I figure when I'm 60+ I'll start dating. Other 60+ single childless women. We'll go on walking dates and if they can't keep up I'll find another. I'm not waiting for one now at 30

DangZagnut · 2020-01-21T19:50:20+00:00

Many married people are lonely.

Date women, if you want, loneliness averted. Just don’t commit.

You know you can have male friends too.

Loneliness isn’t exclusively solved with a relationship contract.

plainnsimpleforever · 2020-01-21T19:58:42+00:00

I've been married/divorced and had 2 other relationships. My kids are getting older and will move-out soon. Then I will be alone. What does marriage have to do with being alone?

gtowerthrowaway · 2020-01-21T20:09:50+00:00

Married 30 years.

The only thing worse than loneliness is being with someone who makes you feel alone.

QuantumSanta · 2020-01-22T00:39:29+00:00

You can also be lonely in a marriage/relationship, consider that.

crityouallday · 2020-01-21T20:00:53+00:00

Lonely? What's that

I have peace of mind and solitude. No dealing with crazy shit.

Also no one here is trying to convert you. You either are or aren't.

maximusnaya · 2020-01-21T20:11:35+00:00

Solitude seems to be priceless as you age.

Dmapguy · 2020-01-21T20:57:00+00:00

Not an argument. A useless hypothetical.

Erwinblackthorn · 2020-01-21T21:04:41+00:00

It's not "will be lonely", it's "can be lonely."

Men are not women who need social interaction 24-7. Men are actually independent individuals who aim towards spirituality in order to tap into the world beyond the physical realm. Or they can travel the world and enjoy themslves, smashing pussy in every country.

How can we be lonely when we are busy with shit like that?

Synth_Kobra · 2020-01-21T21:39:21+00:00

I think this is entirely dependent on your state of mind and sense of self. I think this is a big hurdle all men must face and accept. Some are pretty antisocial and don't care. But some, myself included, grapple a bit at the idea of just being alone. I think that is just a normal human desire. However, you can still have the boys (something women will never relate to or understand) and you can have a purpose in life and accomplish things you never could have done if you anchored yourself. Think of it like this. Risk yourself to experience divorcerape, a nagging bitch who will get fat and maybe cheat on you and may not even have basic life skills, raise kids, or do whatever you want with your life and be satisfied?

zennacko · 2020-01-22T10:41:14+00:00

So this is me giving you a little push to leave the MGTOW closet (?)

You can have company as a MGTOW, as a matter of fact, you can pick and choose your company, have friends, time for a hobby or 10, have pets, a dog, a cat, a parrot to swear at your guests! And if sexual intimacy is what you crave, you will have time and money to have a taste of any type of woman you desire, either by buying your way into the pussy or charming them, up to you, but there's no commitment, no wifey holding you back from greatness - not that unlimited sex with unlimited partners is the best you can do with a free life IMO but the beauty of it is that you get to pick your priorities, your decisions are up to you and you alone, no need to have a vote with wife/kids that will inevitably become a liability and a hemorrhaging wound on your finances.

GrundyHasPants · 2020-01-28T11:45:42+00:00

Will you be more or less lonely being divorce raped while your ex is fucking your best friend?

Title	Can’t convert yet
Author	trevorkoz
Upvotes	0
Comments	24
Date	January 21, 2020 7:27 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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