Have a buddy who is an on the road trucker. He's gone 5.5 days out of the week. He has 2 kids with his girl who I'm gonna be honest is a good mother. I respect her for that. Was hanging out with them and he went on a dump run. She confessed a lot of stuff to me in that time. She's literally at home all week by herself taking care of 2 5 year olds (his) and a 13 year old from a previous relationship. They are behind on they're bills and my buddies mother is the landlord. She works and pulls in between 55 and 70k. She told me their bedroom is basically dead. She has sex with him like once every 8 months and he needs pills to get it done. Now she is overweight at 160 but she is not unattractive ( with all the thirsty simps out there she would not have a problem) and tbh he has let himself go prolly around 260. She has been faithfull and I know for sure. While I know he has run off with other women. She takes care of everything while my buddy just works. Opens up new credit cards behind her back to do what he wants. Keep in mind they are behind on mortgage. Now this guy when I say he is a friend I mean he would help me bury a dead body. But I can't help to feel bad for this woman. And I am the godfather of these 2 male children which I take seriously even though I'm not religious. All while she is taking care of 2 parents on hospice. Now I'm as Redpill as it comes. Years b4 I found mgtow. But I don't know what to do. This guy would die with me. But these male children have no male influence in the house atm cause he's always gone. And she confessed that she has thought of finding a boyfriend to emotionally support her but she feels she couldn't morally do it. Tldr: guy I would kill someone for is terrible parent. Don't know how to help their relationship. Don't know what to do outside of spending time with his kids