I have a friend who occasionally goes on dates - more like meetups really, none of that restaurant BS or anything, and he always asks the girl he's dating (in person) what she think of feminism near the start of the conversation. This helps him determine whether she is worth any of his time or not. If she voices her support towards feminism at all (especially alarming if she is passionate about it), then that right there is the biggest red flag possible and rest assured that she will screw you over one day, and not do any activities expected from a woman in marriage. I feel that if more men did something like this, there would be fewer cases of them getting fucked-over in court situations or otherwise. So my friend makes the only reasonable decision in that situation and just leaves mid-convo. I think he says something like his better side-bitch is calling him (for the fun of it) and then just leaves.

Obviously going your own way ensures you are 100% safe, which is clearly better since things can still go wrong ultimately even after using the above approach, but I just thought I'd put this out there cuz it might help some people ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.