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[–]Dberp 23 points24 points25 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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This is my life. Why I went MGTOW many years before it was called that. I searched and searched, but all I found were party sluts or housewife wannabes.
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I know it ended up coming back around to saying hell with them, live on your own.. but there's a little bit of, "you can program/hack them" idea played with, in the middle. In theory yes, but this is a lot of work, with diminishing returns.
If somebody wants the basic blueprint/steps to doing this: First, think of yourself as being like justice scales, that can be balanced, and left alone. Women are more like a pendulum, and need to be kept emotionally/mentally bouncing from one side to the other. They have a cycle that needs to be met to keep homeostasis.
What this means in English is she needs a pattern of inner conflict, a release from the resolving of the conflict, then a brief period of accomplishment and contentment from it being behind her, until her energy can't carry that direction any more- and you need to repeat the cycle or she tips over.
She has a need to feel the "grrr" for you, then can feel the excited happy for you again. You can also apply this sexually, by figuring out from context clues(her looks, demeanor, how she touches/interacts with you) when she wants to be "made love to" or fucked like whore. Sometimes they want both or trade from one to the other mid flow. You can pick up on it by how she touches/kisses you.
TL;DR: I got a little off track, but yes, in theory you can "keep a woman in check" and have some degree of control over her- but that is still a lot of work and headache for someone who will most likely continue to expect more, and appreciate less.
Edit: dem damn typos
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Yep! I got a reality check about that too from having a daughter. I'm used to dealing with more advanced women, so I underestimate her, or did. It was a weird realization seeing the gears developing and turning, trying to figure out how to get me to do/react how she wanted.
It's also another thing that gives me the heebie jeebies for a man she likes, b/c she's already had pua daddy to practice play head games with.
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