When I first came to this sub I thought damn, these guys need to chill out. Women aren't that bad.

But after really thinking about things, the game is fucked up!

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I have always had my own interpretation of GYOW even from young. As an only child, from day 1 having a girlfriend always seemed stupid to me. I have no money, live with my mom, want to play with my friends knew nothing about sex why would I have a girlfriend telling me what to do? lol To this day, If your not trying to have children, relationships are pointless.

I'm 27 now had relationships, ups, downs, love, sex, abortions, no kids etc. Been single for about 2 weeks and I feel like I'm remembering how to think for myself again. There is something about being in a relationship that just doesn't allow you to be your best self. I loved my ex but I feel like we were holding each other back from levelling up in life, and also I knew she would throw away any plans she had for life if she got pregnant, which she almost did, and what ultimately ended us, when she had an abortion.

This made me think. What if she had kept the child, theres actually nothing I could do. Even though I've said on many occasion no children till I'm fincially stable, which she agreed to, which is also why I was with her. This lead me to think, If I could have my whole life dictated by her decisions, I could have easily been persuaded to get married for the child, then divorced a few years later. Like I've seen a lot of guys talk about here.

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So my question is, What is divorce ACTUALLY like? what's the worst things your seen from lawyers, judges, or ex SO?

I want all the horror stories!