My ex divorced me 18 months ago. My fault, I wasn't cheating though. A lot of hostility between us for the last 6 years because I worked too much and she became an alcoholic. 2 DUI's, 3 totalled vehicles, ignition interlock device, and her car searched at work. She posted about her boyfriend of 5 weeks on FB and had him meet her parents and out kids. I offered to meet him too, but she said no. Anyway, it took a load off my mind that she wouldn't come back. She mentioned that they were going to a hotel and it bothered me but not my circus. Then Monday morning I got a text at 6:45 referencing another hotel stay. Then an apology for sending it to the wrong person. I responded in a smartass manner and that was it. On Wednesday my curiosity got the best of me. I checked property tax records and found out he lives with his mama. This explains the hotels. He is 51 years old. Then I did a general google search and found out he is a truck driver who works locally. She lacks her desperation to complete her PhD. Obviously this bothers me or I wouldn't be writing this but I'm quickly becoming a He-man Woman Hater.