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[–]sevenfacedsin 10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Video games.
[–]PickTheStorefront2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Appreciate the honesty
[–]coqui250 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol video games. Same here actually or reading
[–]sevenfacedsin 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Reading is also good.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dating? I think you are in the wrong sub. If I ever spend money on a woman she's is a hooker.
[–]Nachowolfs5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you pay for their time , they are a prostitute.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
ive never dated. i get friendzoned by hot chicks and then i have one night stands with their fat friends
im like a snapping turtle, i just hang out in the mud with my mouth open waiting for food to swim into my mouth
i gotta admit though, now that im older its getting kind of boring. id rather do it myself most of the time
[–]PickTheStorefront3 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Hahaha - favorite response so far. That may be the best strategy and somewhat close to mine.
[–]louie_kc2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Nope. Splitting everything. No guaruntee it works out and I'm not losing money on a stranger.
[+][deleted] 9 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
See that's the rub (pun intended). If you don't pay your chances of getting laided are dropping. So there's the temptation to be the big guy but that can lead to bankruptcy too.
[–]Ohboohoolittlegirl0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bullshit. Not paying doesn't drop your chances, just be clear and non-apologetic. I'd tell her several times during a date how I appreciate strong independant women.. I'm probably not gonna see her a second time so who cares what she thinks she knows about me..
[–]PickTheStorefront1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Well u say bullshit and then u say you're probably not gonna see her a second time. But I like the idea of being clear and non-apologetic
[–]squidracer 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I go to dollar well drink night. Worst that can happen is I'm out$10 and I'm pretty lit
[–]libradragon872 points3 points4 points 9 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
I've never paid for a date, and never will. If I get asked out, they can pay. Because they wanted to go out and waste money on food or whatever activity in the first place and I'm smart and can eat at home. This also subsequently sets the precedent that I will never pay for shit. And yes, I have had girls pay for the date they invited me on, and then put out.
Women are horny and I'm a hot special snowflake who has no problem reversing the roles.
I've had girls spend 150$ bar tabs between us. Buy me roses. Pay for dinner and bowling, etc. I'm not trying to brag it is simply about common sense.
I don't spend my hard earned money on temporary low value things such as food, I'm frugal as hell, and I have my own personal boundaries that I won't budge on..
Good for you bud. Are you especially attractive because I don't hear of these too often?
[–]libradragon870 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Probably 7-8/10 girls would call me hot or rate me 8 or 9/10. I'm 29 y/o, 6'0 and I've been working out for 12 years. I try to hide my body though because I am sick of superficial sluts.
Being attractive will open more doors imo, but in the end it comes down to having the proper attitude, knowledge, and mindset. I don't pursue women, never have. I let them come to me. I'm naturally a brutally honest/blunt person who walks around with a dick (bitch) face and I cant help that, its just my face and who I am. But damn has it paid off. I've become unconsciously competent at treating entitled hot girls like absolute shit, do not give a shit about their opinions, know how to respond to shit tests and shaming, pay zero attention to them, never give approval etc. It's lately become quite a fun game of mine to ONLY give them approval during sex. "Damn you look so cute with my dick in your mouth." It's the small things that count lol.
One of my last jobs I got I had a female interviewer, (the manager - later got fired cause well shes a dumb women)I flat out told her during the interview that women cannot lead and are terrible in positions of authority, leadership, and power. She was squirming in her seat getting wet and hired me on the spot.
Ok bud, if anything you said is true, you're a jiggolo. Congratulations. It's not your attitude. I'm new to this board but I think you may be what is challed a Chad?
[–]zachs_alligator 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Used to pay for dates until I woke up to what was really going on. Gotta realized that you, the man, are the prize. Women should be paying for dates.
I just don't see that happening at the moment. But I like the sentiment.
[–]knxguy 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Porn, then video games, sometime both at same time.
Problem?
[–]Incapaisa0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I do coffee So a 5/6 dollar cup of sugar and cream is my limit. If I ever feed a hoe it's because I already smashed. Coffee date is perfect..you talk and within 10 minutes you know if you can smash or not.
But yeah for me the juice is not worth the squeeze anymore Overwatch for me
[–]Folwart0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
What if you could not pay and increase your chances of getting laid at the same time?
Edit: typo
[+][deleted] 9 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Do tell
[–]Folwart0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just have them pay as if that is the only way and the way it ought to be done. Women used to cook, if they don't want to cook they can pay. It is not like they do not have options here. It is not a guarantee, but is it ever? Can't cook, you pay, capeesh?
[–]nigelh0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
May I refer you to the Feynman technique.
[–]teflondan1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
At this point it's chill at home and do for me. Like most learn what works for you, You can pay for dates if you'd like, until you've had enough, it will eventually get to that point. My last girl would pay for a lot of things and we'd split dinners or one would cover one, one time and the other the next. She was actually very forward thinking in that aspect and we had a lot in common. Just another case of single mom AWALT, thought she was the unicorn. Live and learn.
[–]cheesymold-1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I used to forget my credit card at home. The girl was worth seeing again I'd offer to pay for the next night out. I've been used so much that I'm just breaking even at this point. Also you get more leverage for 5he second date.
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[–]sevenfacedsin 10 points11 points12 points (3 children) | Copy Link
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See that's the rub (pun intended). If you don't pay your chances of getting laided are dropping. So there's the temptation to be the big guy but that can lead to bankruptcy too.
[–]Ohboohoolittlegirl0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]PickTheStorefront1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]squidracer 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]libradragon872 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Good for you bud. Are you especially attractive because I don't hear of these too often?
[–]libradragon870 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]PickTheStorefront2 points [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]zachs_alligator 1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]PickTheStorefront3 points [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]knxguy 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Incapaisa0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Folwart0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Do tell
[–]Folwart0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]nigelh0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]teflondan1 point [recovered] | Copy Link
[–]cheesymold-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link