Does anyone else work in a gynocentric environment? What's it like and how do you deal with it ?

ScottishDragon · 2017-07-06T09:31:40+00:00

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SRod1706 · 2017-07-06T15:03:53+00:00

I am a CPA. Accounting is almost all women now. I work with about 30 women and 8 guys. My approach is that I help all the guys I work with. When any female, except two ask me anything, I don't respond the first time as if I did not hear them. Women hate this. If they are asking a question I say I don't know, usually in a round about way. If they are asking for help I say I am working on something and will stop by after I am done. I never do.

One is my boss and the other is an NAWALT. Short, slightly overweight, grew up really poor in china, has horrible acne scars that makeup cannot hide, 45ish, never married and is not materialist. Saves all her money to retire at 50. I am sure she would be awalt if she had a choice, it is just natural, but being old, ugly, having an accent (Chinese accents don't have the same ring as say a French on would) and raised not in the US all hamper that some. We have an arrangement. Part of my job is very repetitive and boring. She does that for me, I do a harder part of her job for her each month. It takes her about 3x as long to do the part I gave her. She is ok wit that. Since she saved me from about 2-3 days of painfully boring work each month, I help her and teach her when she needs it.

So both of the women at work I talk to, as I would a guy, are to my benefit to talk to. Otherwise females barely exist.

My rules to work peacefully with females:

Be as of little use as possible to them. They will only come to you if they want something. They almost never offer anything in return. Usually they want gossip or help on how to do their jobs. If you are really blue pilled they will try to pawn off their work on you. This also means being uninteresting as possible, because interesting is drama and gossip. They live on that. Never mention a hobby or trip to them. This is hard when they over hear you talking to one of the guys at work, but nip it in the bud by acting busy or something.
For fuck sake, never ever try to make a stand for a blue pilled guy that is not defending himself. If bitches are giving him work that is causing him to stay till midnight, do not intervene and do not offer to help. I cannot stress this enough. You can talk to and hint things, but don't push it and do not intervene.
This kind of fits into number 1, but deserves its own mention. Never be rude. Be distant or distracted or my favorite, busy. The reason for this is that rudeness is drama and females love drama. Being rude may win you the battle, but it alerts others that you are in the game. Some will try to get you to be rude to have something to talk about or to have an enemy. Don't be their enemy. They enjoy the fight too much. I think that is why husbands always seem to just give in to their wives.
Have some alibies to use for when you are ask to stay late to finish a woman's work. This comes up a lot. So and So has to leave because kids or what ever other lies, can you help out on it. Use the same ones over and over. My favorite is, I have a church event tonight. Then they ask what, I say I never talk about religion or church at work. I never go to church, but no one know that at work. Have a sick mom or relative staying with you. I also have kids. I do have certain times where I pick them up and really cannot stay late for that reason, but never use them as an excuse when it is not true. It is just a personal thing after seeing so many women lie about having kid issues to leave early and have other people do their work. I just feel dirty about it.
I feel that if you don't know this, then you might not be savable yet. NEVER DATE, GO OUT WITH OR SLEEP WITH ANYONE FROM WORK. You will end up the focus of gossip and drama, and other women from the office will think that since you dated one of them your bank account is up for the taking.

bonusfruit · 2017-07-06T09:42:44+00:00

I spent my life from 11 to 19 in a class where girls had a significant majority. AMA!

DeMeza · 2017-07-06T10:00:03+00:00

I find it really hard to work with them. Now, I don't "hate" women and I believe in (true) equality. But for the most part, working with women is just really stressful. Either they are bitter and passive aggressive or they act like children (mostly to manipulate you) just to turn around and become dominant.

I deal with it by being friendly but assertive. I don't let them drag me into their games and I don't become emotional. I don't try to be their friend. I just stick to the tasks at hand. If they start talking about what they did in the weekend or what they are going to do in the weekend, I just listen and say "Interesting".

I've already decided that I don't want to work in this environment for the next 40 years. So my "exit strategy" is to save as much money as possible and gain enough experience to go freelance. Having this plan is a huge help because I know in the back of my head that I can eventually say "Fuck you, I'm out of here!".

Strella10m · 2017-07-06T12:20:41+00:00

have done, just be good looking and pretend to be stupid and its easy as fuck.

whenever someone asks you anything insightful or personal just use the "I dont know" and if they ask about personal life just pretend to be very confused with a bad memory

--"do you have a girlfriend?"

---"eerrr, i dont know, i sort of am there is this girl i see sometimes i guess, im not really sure" etc.

keep it as vague as possible, as if you have a permanent hangover and are half asleep and women will just think you are a "simple" man who knows nothing, rather than the razor sharp acutely aware individual you actually are.

Actanonverba11 · 2017-07-06T14:05:00+00:00

My office has like 5 women to 1 man. It's insane how many women (most of them single mothers) there are. I just keep my head down, for the most part. I interact a little and joke to keep up appearances. Although when they asked me about marriage I did say that it was a joke. They didn't like it, but they say I'm young and "will change." Pfft. Most of these women are single mothers and/or divorcees who have nothing good to say about their ex's and baby-daddies. Great incentive for marriage, eh?

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Socaddict · 2017-07-06T19:44:27+00:00

Teacher in the UK. Fortunately, I teach physics so I'm in demand enough that no one wants to get rid of me. Science department is more male than any other department so I don't have to deal with the bullshit. I avoid the staff room for work and lunch and focus on my job.

Saying all today, my head of department is female, but 48, married, kids and had a proper STEM career (including a PhD) before coming into teaching. Doesn't play politics and just gets stuff done. Rest of the female staff - they're either in management (so long as I'm ticking the boxes they don't have time to bother me) or they're lower down the hierarchy so I just avoid them.

SJHammer · 2017-07-06T16:11:14+00:00

Had a conversation with my best friend. He was complaining about his work environment. I explained how he worked in sales basically(account management) and its a narcissistic environment and he isn't narcissistic. He's always been a matcher/fair person with give and take. He agreed, I was spot on with my explanation. He hates it. He knows he can't trust anyone. They are lazy and rewarded for shit work.

uk_cuckold_hunter · 2017-07-06T17:38:58+00:00

I went to donate blood earlier this week. There was a single male (nurse) working with a dozen c*nts. He seemed broken, and defeated. Really wanted to tell him to get out, but you just can't. His 'boss' was a young, fat, blue haired, female who had the face of a dropped pie, and as bulldyke as one can be.

Never work with them, I say.

Title	Does anyone else work in a gynocentric environment? What's it like and how do you deal with it ?
Author	ScottishDragon
Upvotes	20
Comments	20
Date	July 6, 2017 8:47 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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