Does anyone struggle?

andreas-mgtow · 2016-10-23T11:12:57+00:00

I struggle all the time. Right now, I can't decide weather to buy a $700 i3 mk2 3D printer or a $1750 SLA one.

Oh, did you mean vs. wasting my time and money on playing Alpha Clown or Beta provider for some whore?

Coluphid · 2016-10-23T13:24:41+00:00

Every man struggles.

It's important to remember that the circumstances that led us all here are artificially created.

The natural order existed for tens of thousands of years. Society, civilization, etc. Not to mention the biological and existential drives present in each of us.

We are all driven by deeply rooted prerogatives to seek mates, to procreate and multiply. To build and grow prosperity for ourselves, our families and our communities.

The current state of things is a massive, deliberate orchestration to turn all that on its head. Going against the natural order.

And yet our natural drives remain, even if the shape of the world today is unsafe for us to pursue them.

And so we arrive at cognitive dissonance.

Of course we struggle and suffer. We can't not.

Now is the time men need to cultivate strength. Wisdom. Perspective. Friends. A support system and a place in a community. To counteract the suffering that cognitive dissonance must incur and realize our potential as Men.

Hold fast. Stay the course. Improve yourself and become a person of value. In time you will need noone validation but your own. And in time you will come to understand why things have been perverted the way they have and by whom.

JacksterTrackster · 2016-10-23T09:44:51+00:00

Used to but have met men who were fucked over by women and now they are miserable. That made me glad I'm single.

JStheHammer · 2016-10-23T16:22:05+00:00

Just rub one out, you'll feel better.

Zombocom1911 · 2016-10-23T16:15:08+00:00

no, I don't struggle. Women have given me more than enough reason to hate them over the years. I have turned that hate into indifference.

Mojo_666 · 2016-10-23T09:23:47+00:00

Not all but I say this as someone who has led that "normal" life already.

mgtow_eagle · 2016-10-23T15:25:44+00:00

I struggle in the sense that I wish the world didn't work this way, but I does and I have to adapt.

odion1500 · 2016-10-23T17:08:31+00:00

If I 'struggle' I just have to look at my bank balance and say would i be more happy with 50% less money and a woman that nags me 24/7 who also spends all my money.

TumaHaileSelassie · 2016-10-23T21:08:01+00:00

Mid life crisis and big boy toy collections aside, I don't care enough about this environment to think about repopulating it. Women & cohabitation with them is just a part of that uninteresting reproductive goal. They serve no purpose to me outside of being competitive biological matter stretching for the same things I reach towards on a daily basis, I hate everyone equally.

squidracer · 2016-10-23T13:48:40+00:00

Not really. I've always had gfs but I've never had any desire to be married.. It never made logical sense to me.

Why would i commit to someone who is already giving me sex every day?? Why do guys do it?

Eyes_Of_The_Dragon · 2016-10-23T14:08:56+00:00

No, but that bridge was already burned in the divorce.

nigelh · 2016-10-23T17:51:35+00:00

Stop thinking about what you won't do and look at the prospect of what you can do. The world is your oyster. Anything from learning quantum mechanics to base jumping.

wildfireboat · 2016-10-23T23:20:55+00:00

If the bridge leads to financial ruin and unrecoverable wasted time why not burn it down?

My-Name-Is-No-One · 2016-10-24T04:34:58+00:00

With whores? Hell no. I went my way and never looked back. I'll never date or mess with a woman again. The bigger struggle is retaining my right to be an outsider in a world that constantly tries to drag me back down into the monkey shit, but I laugh and smile and say, "no, I don't believe in your bullshit." Even MGTOW has its crusaders, and to them I say, "no, lol, I don't believe in your bullshit." This whole song and dance and maldaptive, chronic discontent and excess and facade is disgusting. People are cruel, greedy, stupid, ignorant, weak, and obnoxious, and they seem to love nothing more than trying to drag a man standing tall back into the shit with them.

socketcrown · 2016-10-24T08:09:55+00:00

it's a struggle, I'm open to marriage with just the right girl, and it seems random and chaotic to know if she's out there. have considered becoming a religious monk. or just being single and keeping up with projects - just working on this for now

armaadi · 2016-10-24T16:57:16+00:00

Struggle? Man, all the shit I would do if I were single...

Play softball AND baseball? Fuck yes.
Start up a different hobby? Why not...
Time to actually play a game? Yup
Actually able to spend time working out more? Duh..

Seriously, my only struggle would be getting my baseball swing back for a game Sunday after a softball game on Wed.

ShacklesBegone · 2016-10-23T20:31:28+00:00

I'm in my thirties and have had enough sex for a few lifetimes. If I never got laid again, I'd put it under the zero fucks given category. Much more interesting things in life to pursue. YMMV, though.

Title	Does anyone struggle?
Author	Dertotenkraut
Upvotes	32
Comments	23
Date	October 23, 2016 9:22 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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