Ever notice how....

anongogogo · 2018-06-18T15:53:13+00:00

The man is left to rot, while the women is paid in alimony,child support, and she finds a new beta bux. It's a really fucked up system. But, what can you do as an bystander?

drevfever · 2018-06-18T16:21:19+00:00

It's similar to the Japanese concept of Kenjataimu which is the period of clear thoughts a man has after orgasm. After childbirth the mother is thinking "what did I ever see in this guy?" /r/blundermarriage

1greymonk · 2018-06-18T17:41:19+00:00

I can absolutely attest to this. My ex was obsessed with me 24/7 before I knocked her up. Then it was all demands, accusations, condemnations, and rejection.

Exactly like OP says, like flipping a switch.

annonymous93 · 2018-06-18T16:09:11+00:00

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RocketPowersSD · 2018-06-18T19:08:37+00:00

Wives don’t love their husbands because women don’t experiencing love as men feel it; the closest emotion women feel to love is what they feel for their children, and their lust for money to feed those children is often the reason they abandon their men to begin with.

Don’t be an idiot. Women are heartless, evil, cunts who are incapable of experiencing love. They are evil in the purest incarnation. AWALT

Afab67 · 2018-06-18T17:50:53+00:00

Well, the man has fulfilled his purpose and now she owns him for 18 years. After 18 years, if they're still married, she can take him for all he's worth in divorce court. She has no reason, in her mind, to respect him any longer.

thotless_rat_bastard · 2018-06-18T19:12:12+00:00

I actually had a woman say to me that woman should have two marriages. One for kids and one for herself. She was post wall and single. Her husband had primary custody. At one point prior she had made some money in the tech bubble, but lost it all when the stock she held tanked and the company went bust. Last I talked to her she was on the last of her unemployment checks. It was funny to watch.

genethedog · 2018-06-19T03:25:33+00:00

My theory on this: When we're young we have the ability to bond. This is a hormone called oxytocin. We need it to bond (create trust) with our parents.

As we progress into puberty we all get that independent and rebellious streak. We must do this to be viable as adults. Puberty also makes us (male and female) horny and lowers our risk aversion (not that we have that much wisdom at the time anyway).

Women that take to being sluts use up their oxytocin reserves after the first and second guy, maybe they have a chance at a third, but with each passing cock, they no longer are able to bond. Sex begins to be used only as a tool to control men and also for dompamine (excitement) rushes. This leads them to fuck more and more random men because sticking with the same guy gets 'boring' as the amount of dopamine they can get with him drops off a cliff. And since they didn't actually 'bond' with him, it's off to the next.

Something happens when a woman has a baby though. All of a sudden they get a MASSIVE oxytocin flood. This bonds them to the child in such a way that nothing else in the world matters but the child.

Any bond they may have had with the man is quickly overridden. Now, every squeek and squirm the child does sets off an alert in her mind to protect and provide for the child.

A woman starts to get anxious. She worries about the survival of her offspring to a HYPER level. So much that the man in the house begins to be seen, at least, as an annoyance/nuissance, and at worst, she believes he's a 'threat' in physical, mental and sexual ways because women's brains are so connected to their vagina's that EVERYTHING is about sex to them.

Fuck, you can say hi to one on the street and almost hear "he wants to fuck me" in her head. That's her bodies fear response to the fact that he gave her feelz and tinglz.He brain tells her "fear!" "Threat!" to stop her from 'going with' her feelings to want to fuck him.

Her body is telling her all the risks of pregnancy. Especially when they are 30+ and especially if they never had a dad around. If they are prevented from bonding with their dad early on, they will grow up to fear men. This is usually a result of their mom's going through that same "threat! Fear!" thing after she had a child and tossed the man on his ass.

Now the daughter is doomed to not trust men. Mom's LOVE this because they don't like to share. They don't want the child bonding with dad. They don't want the child to ever think dad might be right about anything. This is how selfish the cunts are and it breeds on down the line.

Total redpill reality: if they don't need you, if you are of 'no use' to them, you're fucking finished. They are not bonded with you. They only stay if they absolutely have too.

What's twisted about that is that when she DOES need you to survive, she knows this and resents you because she depends on you and NO MATTER how easy, free and benevolent you are to them, they will always perceive you as an oppressor and a tyrant which makes her want to rebel against you, just like she did against the parents she once depended on.

Funny thing is, if her parents are still around, she'll always have an 'out' and if she can't find another man to monkey-branch too, they'll swing home and become dependent on their parents again.

Of course she'll blame you. She just can't face the fact that her, along with most women (and far too many men) are dependents. Especially if they got way to comfy at home.

These people wake up at 35+, still completely dependant on their parents or SOMEONE that they can't help but feel entirely ashamed of their entire fucking existence.

And when they see a man walking down the street with his head high and shoulders back, they perceive you as rubbing their nose in their failure because women as a whole depend on the perception, validation and attention of others for their esteem.

They don't know who they are unless they are following along in a crowd. Alone, they are nothing and they fucking know it. And they'd rather have you dead and ruined than walking around all successful and happy and full of confidence. You are a constant reminder that all they ever managed to do was what every single women manages to do: have a baby.

Whoop-dee-doo. It's like taking a shit. A biological function that requires no special skills at all. Feed it, wash it, don't drop it, and it will make it. Ohhhh... I'm so impressed. Anyone can do it. Even us 'stupid men' can do that and they hate us even more because it doesn't get any truer than that. To realize you are not at all special, that you have absolutely no skill, no value outside of having a kid and having it not die. God, that has to be the worst feeling EVER.

Just another name on a gravestone. "I wonder what her life was like?" "Probably about as boring and average and uninspired as that one there, and that one there, and that one there... pretty much all of them." "Wow, that's sad." "Yup. They're all so sad"

48LawsOfFlour · 2018-06-18T19:28:38+00:00

Briffault's Law:

the female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.

Docbear64 · 2018-06-18T17:16:50+00:00

Financially he's on the hook , A woman without a baby is always at the mercy of her man leaving her... the moment you put a baby in her that chick is apart of your life forever . I'm not saying babies are an STD ... I think putting a baby in female assholes is a horribly incurable STD

iwanttheblanketback · 2018-06-19T05:23:33+00:00

It just shows you what she was really after.

annonymous93 · 2018-06-18T23:20:15+00:00

....was it your second kid together, her second kid, or your second kid? Just wondering because I have a kid already and fear having another one since you can’t guarantee women to stick around after

happybeta · 2018-06-19T15:34:00+00:00

I noticed the switch flipping immediately following the birth of my oldest son. My ex made my life so miserable I ended up divorcing her. She remarried two years later and they recently had their first child together. The cycle continues...

magx01 · 2018-06-18T20:19:19+00:00

Yes but it's futile to be angry about it. It's simple biology.

annonymous93 · 2018-06-19T15:52:33+00:00

Isn’t it painful yet amusing, how all we can do is “laugh”, because legally what else can we do. We have no say in whose around our children half of the time now. Further, the “downgrade” truly is because they are just looking for “Mr. right-now”, instead of “Mr. Right”, because there are things she is trying to deal with such as security with meeting bills and with loneliness....it’s hilarious in a sense, how people make all men out to be the bad guys that move on fast, when from what I’ve seen we move on much slower because we don’t feel we need another person (or mistake of a significant other). Also, with the rare exception of a woman making more money, they don’t have any risk in things not working out....other than their kid, but if they were truly concerned about that they would’ve tried harder to work things out before separation/divorce and would consider a new man coming into the picture longer instead of rushing into it.

Title	Ever notice how....
Author	annonymous93
Upvotes	85
Comments	37
Date	June 18, 2018 3:48 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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