Everyone thinks I'm a weirdo for avoiding dating

DangZagnut · 2020-02-11T18:33:45+00:00

My life philosophy has always been that if a girl is interested in me, she’ll ask me out.

No one shows interest, I don’t do shit.

TigPlaze · 2020-02-11T19:13:41+00:00

It's none of their damn business.

attoj559 · 2020-02-11T22:23:37+00:00

People usually find it odd when they come upon a person who goes against the grain.

Cryptolexicon · 2020-02-11T18:43:31+00:00

Not a weirdo - rational I would say

You took in all the available information and made a rational decision, one meant to maximize your present and future happiness.

Phantom_Spark · 2020-02-11T18:47:09+00:00

You have to make decisions in your life and whether glorious or tragic... except the consequences.

Now the question is... would you rather follow others or make up your own mind? Just because others do something doesn’t make it right. We used to think the world was flat. Hell, some people still think so.

Easy way to test this is to test the group. When you disagree with them... ask them a question that’s a problem for their argument. If they’re being honest they will address it honestly and openly. Now if they’re being dishonest, they will avoid it.

What happens when you ask a blue piller about extremely high divorce rate, false paternity, false accusations, divorce rape, etc. they will never address it. They will say it won’t happen so don’t worry about it. Then look at anyone who’s had it happen to them. Their advice is... tough break. Or you should have known better and not slept with her. You see right away that these people don’t have your best interest in mind, nor do they respect your point of view.

archwiz75 · 2020-02-12T01:16:33+00:00

Why waste money on dating when you can just fuck her in the car and kick her out once you're done?

OniiChanStopNotThere · 2020-02-11T22:36:58+00:00

It's quite simple really. You are the only one who will always have your best interests. Therefore, you should just consult with yourself. If you have determined you are happy, then you can safely ignore what everyone else says.

tw-1234a · 2020-02-12T00:12:37+00:00

You live a peaceful life. Others would not understand.

silly_birb · 2020-02-11T23:22:21+00:00

It is a scam, alpha or beta a man that play the dating game has to be functional to the woman, as a gigolo or as an atm.

The only right move os not to play.

Also metoo is fucked up right now.

2020-02-11T20:02:21+00:00

Everybody jumps of a bridge with a rope around their neck. Should you do it too?

truthtawker · 2020-02-11T21:21:04+00:00

most people are mindless sheep, ignore them, avoid them

Synth_Kobra · 2020-02-11T22:06:03+00:00

It's your life and they can suck it. There is nothing wrong with avoiding dating, especially this cesspool known as modern dating. You have more time, money and energy to work on things you care about. Maybe you should stop caring what these people think. When someone does something that challenges, some people just become intimidated because it goes against everythign they thing life is.

ben-anders · 2020-02-11T23:25:27+00:00

Just show them this video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MSq54f2JT_U

ikhwan_arif · 2020-02-12T00:13:55+00:00

They're not right.

You know you more than anyone else does.

Mythopoeias-69 · 2020-02-12T01:46:59+00:00

Dating is like a job interview where your salary at said job, should you succeed in obtaining employment, will never be consistent and in all probability, degrade in quantity, quality and frequency over time.

Additionally, should you choose to resign from your employment, half of your assets will be taken away with the full sanction of the state's judiciary and enforcement power.

A smart man would absolutely avoid dating.

IceyBear988 · 2020-02-12T01:52:23+00:00

Women's the one who always asks or tells you to date, if you don't it's an insult to them even if you're rejecting the concept of dating or being in relationship. It's like banks keep telling you to spend more using credit card and you tell them there is not need for credit cards because you have all you need, they keep telling you how unwise you're not collecting points and rebates when you spend more with cards.

youredeadtomereddit · 2020-02-12T03:42:48+00:00

I have this problem too. Dating is such a waste of time but my family keeps asking me about it. They care about it more than I do.

bpdloveoflife · 2020-02-12T07:18:11+00:00

I think society pressuring young men to feel like they should always date is one of the most toxic attitudes. Regardless of what society says, its OKAY to be single. Its okay not to date anyone. If you do meet someone who you like and who likes you back, you better have healthy boundaries, and understanding of red flags to make sure you are not falling for the wrong person.

Other than that, feel free to live your life on your terms.

Title	Everyone thinks I'm a weirdo for avoiding dating
Author	BrokenWings2020
Upvotes	129
Comments	28
Date	February 11, 2020 6:30 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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