We were almost 15 years together and 3 kids. It is the weekend that the kids stays with me. So I was almost certain that she was seeing some else.

But still just before leaving, I said enjoy some peace and tranquility. She responds "yeah I am gonna enjoy some alone time and do a lot of cleaning".

But yesterday I confirmed that as soon as I left the new guy was already there for the night.

Even via WhatsApp she would not confirm it. She just continue to lie in my face. I hate lying people.

I would have an easier time accepting if was honest about it. So what did we again confirm this weekend.

  1. Woman lie as easy as breathing.
  2. Woman can get over a relationship in microseconds.
  3. Woman will kick you when your down. No empathy.

What I will do now is easy, I used to try and help when the kids were there. Well that's finished. If it's your time, you take care of it.

Also I used to say for some big puchases (new schoolbag,..) "it's ok I will pay for it". Now it's 50/50 for everything with proof.

Luckily tomorrow after bringing them back, I will enjoy some with friends.