I learned about mgtow while in the relationship that just ended. 1st relationship, at the age of 28. Knew each other about 2 years and moved in together February this year. Busted my ass and got a bunch of stuff for the apartment + deposit and other fees.

Was completely in love and overlooked so many red flags.

Realized she has been cheating, lying, manipulative, and a narcissist.

Called her out on it a week ago and we haven't talked in 5 days. I've been out of the house except for sleeping some nights been gone the last 3 days at a friend's place. Going back tonight. Found out from a friend shes starting her new job on Wednesday. We haven't literally talked about shit in weeks at this point other then the arguments and her constant disrespect.

Got some friends to take off Thursday and I'm moving my shit out on Thursday and putting in storage.

Literally signing up for a gym membership to take showers and putting stuff at my mom's. Will be couch surfing/using my car for the next 2 months to get the money together for another apartment. Between my paychecks and ubering on the side should be able to get some money.

The last 2 weeks were brutal but the realization that I was a completely expendable utility and that she'll just be inviting another guy to the place I busted my ass for.

It was the nicest apartment I ever lived in. And shit the pussy was ok. But nothing is worth giving up freedom and self respect and dignity for.

My goal is to get another apartment thats nice yet simple and cost efficient and work on completely stabilizing my finances through budgeting. Once I move into my new place get back into healthy eating, and the gym ima be taking showers in.

I eventually want to begin travelling and checking out cool places as I've never been out of my state. Also to eventually save some money to get into investing and hopefully even going into business for myself and write a book.

But first the current predicament...

This is the first and last time I ever cohabitate or commit to another person on that level again.

GYOW gentlemen. Thanks for the knowledge and giving me the balls to walk away from the one way ticket to evil wierd cuckoldery bullshit this society is.