I don't post often, but I came across these two articles written by the same woman about how to spot an unstable woman, and how to spot an unstable man. Look at how everything unstable about the woman is "beautiful and brave" and an "opportunity for the man to step up", yet everything about the man is a sign of mental illness and how the relationship will fail.

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Everything about the emotionally unstable woman has a positive twist to it and you'd have to be a monster to not like it.

Yet, for the man, everything is wrong and he should be ashamed just for existing.

https://herway.net/her/hot-mess/feels-like-emotionally-unstable-woman/ <- woman article

https://herway.net/relationship/8-warning-signs-you-are-dealing-with-an-emotionally-unstable-man/ <- man article

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I can't not laugh.

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My view is that emotional instability is bad for both genders, but that the media just vilifies everyone with a dick, which maybe explains why many men have started cutting theirs off.