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[–]Colorfulcolors2225 points26 points27 points 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Go your own way bro.
[–]wildfireboat13 points14 points15 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Yes. Should have said nothing. Then gone paintballing. And never think about her again.
[–]confession695 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I legit am done with her I just want to know how any human being who claims they love someone for 8 months can all of a sudden just flip a switch and cuss you out and spew nothing but hate and resentment?
I’ve done nothing but sacrifice for her and this is the shit I get? Insults? I don’t understand how any human being remotely capable of affection can be SO cold.
Oh and I’m taking her to a small claims court for my $3500 I spent moving her in with me and paying her bills lol. It was on the premise she would eventually start pulling her weight and pay me back
[–]Colorfulcolors2210 points11 points12 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
If it wasn't written into a contract you won't see a dime of that $3500. And women are not capable of love, that is a male emotion. She loved the attention you gave her, that's about as far as that goes. Like the other guy said, go play some airsoft or buy a motorcycle. Connect with your inner child and forget about women for awhile.
[–]alchamest 6 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your bitter now man, take that $3.5k as a lesson. It is an expensive/inexpensive lesson depending on your perspective.
Cut your losses man, move on.
[–]Setari2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
flip a switch
You answered your own question, dude. This is what goes on in their brains and they just shred everything you've done together, doesn't matter the timespan, and you are nothing to her.
Rid yourself of this incorrigible plague and GYOW.
I wouldn't waste your time with court, you won't see a CENT of it and will be spending more money trying to get it back.
[–]Rukiyen2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol try six years and then finding a pic of her in bed with some dude in a group chat with her friends. They dont love, they leech.
[–]Devil_Nights0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Easy. She's a woman.
[–]confession6910 points11 points12 points 8 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
As a follow up to my last post, she texted me after turning her phone on and I told her we were breaking up. I also texted her mom asking if I could swing by to get my furniture that I bought, but she took when she moved out. This last text is from a girl who a week prior said she loved me. I am fully convinced women are incapable of true love. Nobody who loves anybody could say this shit. I’m past the point of caring but it still stings just a little knowing that with the past we have, she can say something as cold as this.
[–]confession696 points7 points8 points 8 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
And I know I seem like a beta cuck. I’m just now joining MGTOW and was a “nice guy” my whole life. I couldn’t bring myself to swear at her or anything and still wanted answers to why she can be such a bitch
[–]divorcedbp9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I hate to be the one to tell you this, but you will never get them, ever.
Women just aren’t like you at all - on some topics, they have a different way of analyzing the world that would seem almost alien to you.
This is not a bad thing, or a good thing, it’s just the way it is.
Do not try to interpret her actions from your own point of view - you will never reconcile it, and you’ll go mad trying.
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[–]wildfireboat2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Or maybe nature did intend for them to be this way.
[–]Sal-the-Gunzerker 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Societal constraints were the only thing keeping them in check. Now those constraints are gone.
[–]8017353 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And I know I seem like a beta cuck. ... “nice guy” my whole life.
Sometimes it's that "Miss's taken kindness for weakness" kinda thing.
[–]lonewolf-chicago3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go on amazon.com and buy the book entitled no more mr. Nice guy.
[–]UTRuser743 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I hope that $3.5K lesson teaches you to ghost her from now on and that you begin working on yourself. The only thing that causes a female to pull this sudden garbage is another guy. For her to reach out to you after she told you bye is just her monkey branching you. She’s not sure about her newfound Chad and she needs a safety net. I.e., she’s playing you. Sorry about the MMQB advice. Just trying to help. Go your own way. Good luck.
[–]ZealousMathematician2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She acting that way because in her world only women ever dump men not the other way around. Women make the decisions.
[–]Spacecowboy32 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Consider the lost furniture the price for your freedom and move on, you can get new furniture for dirt cheap on craigslist, just inspect it for bedbugs first. Cut ties and move on and enjoy life brother.
[–]soothslayer2k4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Romantic love doesn't exist. Try loving yourself by creating an awesome life.
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[–]mthrowaway522 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Talk about department of redundancy department
[–]iamgtow 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
When you argue with a woman, it gives legitimacy to the words she has conjured in writing or verbally.
Drop silence. It has a message.
No woman ever was born with a backbone to speak words that would stay in her conscience and not breed insecurity after a while.
The moment you argue, you prevent her insecurity to do its job.
Now why would you do that, sir? Tell me, why?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I admire your point of view, this is why so many people unknowingly 'boost' these hollow women by simply indulging in their meaningless babble.
[–]silive 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
I there was only one word about women to remember it would be NOW. Because everything they say or promise etc., applies only to the present. Read the Briffault's law of biology and its corollaries because it's all there. P.S. Love is a scam in order to make you psychologically dependent on her. As a female, she simply can't benefit from the similar attachment to you so no such "love" exists on her side. More like "I love this t-shirt, I love those shoes." The t-shirt ripped/don't like the color anymore and the heel broke so in the garbage they go. Gotta get me new t-shirt and shoes. Actually, they usually get the new ones before the old go into garbage. In other words, your "love" was most likely already fucking some dude(s) while claiming her "love" for you. She was just unsure that all this sex she was throwing that guy's way was enough to hook him up on this new "love" and then a week later she found out that it was and into the garbage you went. Monkey-branching is VERY real. This is the female version of "love". Whoever said "Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks" was not even joking.
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[–]Agrees_withyou2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're absolutely correct!
[–]Rukiyen2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stop trying to reason with it? It knows no logic.
[–]vedayama2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
its crazy, my last break up, which was about 8 months ago, sounds exactly like this. my ex is talking the exact same way using similar words attitudes and words as yours. me and you are saying the same exact things.
here is the kicker, my ex is from asia, no formal education and was probably around 23 years old at the time (im 33).... how is it possible that they are abusive in the same way. also consider the fact they live in two totally different societies.
i have no idea what age you are or what age your GF(ex i hope) is, but i think we can make a legit comparison here that AWALT.
[–]frankmarlowe1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your biggest mistake was getting that worked up. You give them one little "k". That's all. The simplest, barest acknowledgement. Then you ghost. Block delete avoid, everything. You move on. And you leave them in the dustbin of memory where they belong.
But that's just my two cents. You do whatever you gotta do man. And good luck to you in the future.
[–]jackS5161 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dont say anything more. delete her number. leave it at that
[–]Nezborn021 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Too much effort man
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[–]Alternative-MGTOW0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why even ever did? She looks like a fat ass of ass
[–]confession690 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She wasn’t fat at all, she was actually pretty gorgeous
[–]Alternative-MGTOW1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
picture fooled me :P
[–]Cabshear0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like a ton of self delusion, insecurity, maybe even seeking confirmation bias. Essentislly, you were accused of a crime you might have commited.
This is the result of championing irrational emotive thinking. Even Ayn Rand, a woman, was able to recognize emotional whims vs. Rational thinking.
She won't give you an answer 'cause she doesnt have one. To produce one would require reason, which she seems to not be using in the first place.
Her mom has failed at equipping her with the proper rational tools for life. She's probably just as much of an irrational flake as her daughter.
[–]confession690 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is the case where the one doing all the accusing is guilty themselves and blaming the other out of a guilty conscience. She was maintaining a relationship with me and her ex all 7 months we dated and kept telling the other how the other one was a shitbag who never did anything for her and she’d swear she hadn’t seen the other in months. I texted the guy to clear things up and he’s actually an alright guy. Had no idea he was helping her cheat because he thought she was his and vice versa. Total lying and cheating bitch, a user, all around the shittiest person I’ve ever met.
[–]Cabshear0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's never been taught negative consequence for shitty actions. At this point when she faces negative consequences it will all reinforce a victim mentality that she already possesses.
[–]FREEDNA0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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