For my pump and dumpers...

shatterthecrystal63 · 2019-07-17T15:29:19+00:00

Pair bonding isn't important to women. They're only concerned with what men can provide them with in terms of security and resources.

No such thing as pair bonding, it's something only men put value in when they're unaware of the true nature of relationshits.

MenGoingTOWin · 2019-07-17T16:39:45+00:00

I feel a sense of emptiness in all women, unconditionally.

Fleeb4MrZurkon · 2019-07-17T15:24:47+00:00

Its empty because its basically masturbation, so yeah i guess

anduxo · 2019-07-17T16:59:05+00:00

Not really. If the girl is slutty I don't really want emotional attachment, so no emptiness there.

If she's not slutty, I do get a bit attached, so I usually end up dating her until she realizes there will be no free ride for her just for being with me, I'm a partner and not a father. They may attempt to change me into a provider until they give up, so no emptiness there either, actually relief and happiness while looking at my healthy bank accounts.

So, in short, no, no emptiness. Male friends are preferable in order to keep good mental health.

TerminalSect321 · 2019-07-17T17:31:27+00:00

Monk Mode safe mode.

[deleted] · 2019-07-17T15:27:19+00:00

Ya if i could choose i would have a harem

CuntMonteCristo · 2019-07-17T15:47:05+00:00

It's not as damaging as to women (which are more emotional and fragile) but over time it does have the same effect. When you bang two different women the same day you will kind of feel it surely.

thaddeus_87 · 2019-07-17T15:54:38+00:00

Acting and flirting before fuckin helps a lot.. At least for me! I had this feeling of emptiness just once, after I changed "strategy" it went away!

MuleFool42 · 2019-07-17T21:38:15+00:00

Not sure any more. In the past the paradigm was that for men the primary drive was sex, and that they entered into a relationship to have access to sex. For women, the primary drive was relationships that were strong enough to support a family so that they could procreate, and they provided sex.

Now, the price of sex is low, so men don't have to commit a lifetime of earnings and emotional support to women in order to get sex. And now, women work and don't want to sacrifice career for family.

So we're in a social and emotional no-man's-land. When humans are offered too many choices, their happiness goes down. It's possible that people will gravitate toward a more conservative lifestyle that reflects traditional gender roles, just for their sanity.

The problem is, they may not come to that idea until later in life, and for some, it may end up being too late. Not trying to get political, I'm actually pretty moderate to left, but I see that culturally, people are adrift and just....confused. Usually, when that happens, they just want a framework to follow, they want someone to tell them what to do, and usually a more conservative approach fills that void.

Just my opinion.

RedPillConfessions- · 2019-07-17T15:34:57+00:00

I would say yes bro pumping and dumping makes you feel empty and makes you think to yourself wtf did I just did. Wether it’s masterbation or banging a bitch.

I’ve done it lot. Shit ain’t worth it

StoicGiraffe1 · 2019-07-17T15:54:05+00:00

Do any of you guys feel a sense of emptiness after banging women who you have no emotional attachment to?

Of the few times i did this, i did not feel even the slightest sliver of emptiness. I had a goal, that was to satisfy my carnal desires, and so i satisfied that personal contract. It's actually a very interesting topic: Can you really have sex without any emotional attachment? I feel that, even in today's society, where the concept of sex is overblown literally everywhere, yet we still feel this constrained feeling of confusion when we want to have sex without compromisses. That concept feels very alien to us, biologically. If this is a darwinian consequence of our primate order of having sex to procreate, then it will obviously be erroneous to just have sex without any objective. This question requires more study. Read "Sex at Dawn" if you to explore this concept.

I find myself feeling empty no matter how good the sex or hot the chick if I'm not emotionally connected. Thoughts?

I have been in this forum actively for about 4 days, so, very little time. However, i can tell you that this conflict of yours is more general than you think it is. One of the hardest premisses that we (if you follow MGTOW philosophy) have to accept, is that love and emotional bonding with the other sex that is also Homo Sapiens is, apparently, an illusion and a social fabrication (one of the Kantian kind. Everything, apparently, does not commit objective and universal laws. It's just human imagination. But i am not going to enter that existential hell-hole). This is extremly uncomfortable and alien to us. "How so is it that love is just an illusion?! I HAVE to continue to procreate and make bonds with the other sex, for it is necessary!"

The crushing feeling and reality of not being truly loved is one of the biggest marking stones of the MGTOW philosophy, and one of the hardest steps to make. Brother, if you permit me saying this, this is what i think you are really frightened by: The possibility that, maybe, you will never be truly loved, but that completly ok. You go out of your way, like some of us, to sacieate your carnal desires by having sex uncompromised, however, you cannot shake that feeling of "something is missing". And that something is love/emotional connection.

ElTaimino · 2019-07-17T20:29:47+00:00

I feel nothing. I enjoy the activity just like i enjoy playing D&D, and in the same way i don't care of hearing from them until at least the next week.

CoinSwapTrader · 2019-07-17T21:13:49+00:00

"Directly after orgasm, the devils laughter is heard."
~ arthur schopenhauer

DangZagnut · 2019-07-17T16:28:49+00:00

Do any of you guys feel a sense of emptiness after banging women who you have no emotional attachment to? I'm wondering if pair bonding is just as important to men as it is for women.

For me no. Why would I feel emptiness? That doesn't seem to make sense. perhaps you're endocrine system is messed up, you should be feeling a bunch of endorphins and positive things. If you're feeling "depressed" or something afterwards, that sounds like there's a hormonal problem, or a psychological one.

Psychological not being bad, perhaps sex for you is more emotional than physical. How do you feel after masturbating? Are you purely physical or are their emotional components?

UICumber · 2019-07-17T17:41:35+00:00

get out of here, trying to bring man bang to the plantation by running ops here ? you're trying to get men to soften their stances about why they sought mgtow and you think you're sneaky

pwnzusauce · 2019-07-17T18:39:43+00:00

Do any of you guys feel a sense of emptiness after banging women who you have no emotional attachment to?

Yes, from my balls getting drained by the cumdumpster.

After that I feel regret from spending my precious valuable time & resources with a being that can only offers her holes.

Title	For my pump and dumpers...
Author	youngshinobi7
Upvotes	31
Comments	28
Date	July 17, 2019 3:20 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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