Interesting to think about how if you can't have something it often makes you want it. Then when you get it over time you'll likely lose your sense of value and appreciation for it. Whatever that might be. And when your given something regularly enough you have an expectation of it. If you can, try to move past that thinking, but i respect It's easier said than done. Then you start thinking about what you need instead of only what you want, which doing too much of leads you to having to sustain those desires. I know people working very hard with 2 jobs or sometimes 3 just to hold onto something simply not worth the effort. Be it marriage, an expensive car, etc. Alot of people are naive to the point where they try to justify it (as if to convince themselves) but working yourself to death to impress others is just plain stupid.