Hey Sandman I agree with all the stuff you say and theories you have. I am 40 never married no kids. I had sex with over 40 women throughout my life and had 5 serious girl friends along the way but I never wanted to commit in the end. Check this theory out I want to see if you agree. I think it sucks getting old and that's a fact with people and how they feel about life after a while. Because as you age you don't feel like you belong in youthful places, with youthful women, and youthful crowds anymore. I noticed the only way to beat loneliness is self love being happy with yourself. I noticed most people who get old but had a lot of sex with a lot of girls are less likely to be angry about everything because they can look back and be like hey i had sex with a lot of women so i'm good, I understand. And the guys who did not are always more sexually frustrated and who are self-conscience about a lot of things. I give strippers more credibility than girls who don't do what they do because of the simple fact that they are hot, there honest, and they don't give any problems. Dating them would be a different story. I feel like i'm stuck at this point of my life. I have a few friends who are my age that are good looking guys who still get hit on once and a while but there stuck in the same boat as me. In my opinion I feel that we are lost and don't know what to do with ourselves. Then I came up with the conclusion that it just sucks getting old. Please tell me what your thoughts are thanks.