I'm a bit of a lurker here and rarely post, but recently I started to get pressurized by my parents into meeting women, because my parents want me to get married.

To start of I'm a secular Turk living and born in Germany. Some suppose we (as in people from muslim majority countries) are wrecking havoc. I'm the 3rd generation here , so I'd appreciate, if you don't judge me based on my ethnicity.

My parents are afraid, that I'm gay (I wish I was), because I've got no interest in pursuing a woman, nonetheless openly oppose anything related to relationships and marriage.

The thing is, I've seen what women are capable of and what they do. This started in my toddler years and I'd like to list the examples of awful women I've encountered in my life. I've had my share of awful men to, but they weren't even near the numbers of women.

1) My maternal grandmother: She was and is abusive to my grandfather. She regularly assaults my grandfather physically and talks him down. She sexually abused me as a toddler (which my mom was aware of) and is a narcissistic, money-grabbing bitch. According to my mother, she had my uncle and mother strip naked, whenever they did something wrong, physically assaulted them and locked them up in the cellar.

2) My own mother /and a bit on my father: She chose to marry my dad. My dad, you have to know was already the deadbeat father of a child and a abusive piece of shit at that. He abused me verbally and physically a lot, but more important he hit my mom regularly and they fought a lot. My parents divorced finally when I was just eight. To give you an impression what character my dad has. In all the years they were divorced I visited his home only twice and he never really paid child support (I understand he had not that much money anyway, but he could have at least visited me regularly and flip me a coin.)

Around the same time my mom had a depression and literally couldn't care for me and my little sister. She came home regularly drunk as fuck, slept the whole time in her bed and didn't take care of us, our finances or the household. So I had to play the role as parent.

My mom beat her depression with the help of therapy and I thought I'd live happily ever after then, but when I was 12 my dad lost his job and suddenly weaseled himself back in our life (Of course money was tight suddenly). He was still the same asshole, but my dumb ass mom believed my dad that he changed and let him in. She even told me then, that she had done it for us, but I know, she only thought about herself.

He as sly as he was, impregnated my mother (with my little brother - I love him to bits) and she married him again. (Who the fuck is that dumb?) Of course he didn't change and picked fights with her and me regularly (sometimes breaking my bones when he assaulted me).

My mother however complained about him (and still complains) almost daily and whenever they fought, my mom tried to frame me for minor things in front of my dad, in an attempt to get on his good side. She literally tried to get me and my dad angry at each other, by making nasty remarks about each other behind our backs.

What else? My mom is a lazy fat fuck. She sits in front of the TV at least 6-8 hours a day, she even sleeps in front of the fucking TV, although she has a readily available bed, she doesn't take care of the household, occasionally cooks and believes in shit like ghosts, while thinking of herself as a self-sacrificing mother, just because her children didn't die by starvation.

My aunt: 5 times married. Husband 1 and 2 died. Husband 3 the good guy. She divorced him for a toy boy 20 years younger, which married her, sucked her dry and got the fuck out. (Good guy became rich after their divorce, so he got what he deserved in a positive way). Guy number 5. Her trying to dig for gold. Rich guy 28 years older. He died and his children inherited anything.

3) Woman my mom set me up with: She was a fat slob, with the lowest possible education here, no aspirations for the future, no job and a bland personality. Well. That woman accused me of sexual harassment. Funny thing? I don't live in the city she said it happened. It's my families hometown, but I live and study in another.

4) work colleague 1: She asked me to set her up with a colleague, who is a good looking and absolutely genuine nice person. What I didn't know then? She had a boyfriend then and begged me to set them up. Disgusting. Monkey branching at it's best.

5) Work colleague 2: She is a fat girl, with no personality, hobbies including Netflix and watching TV. How original. Recently she told me what a great girl she is. Hahaha.

6) My supposedly best woman friend: She had a boyfriend, who was a 8 looks wise, while she is a 5 at best. I thought, maybe they are a good match for each other, so no problem. She recently broke up with him, but I heard later from her, that she caught feelings for a guy at her workplace and thought she could do better. She stayed at his place on Silvester and later confined in me, that he was an asshole, who didn't give a shit about her. She tried to monkey-branch and failed. I'm angry at her. More so, because I thought she'd be better than that.

And don't believe muslim, conservative women are any better. They get fucked in the ass to keep their virginity and see Muslim men as ATMs and cattle. LMAO. And people are asking me, why I don't want to have a relationship with any women?

I'm sorry for any typos and grammatical errors. English isn't my first language. Thanks for reading.