I figured I would share my insights and see what y'all do to ghost in the open.

I'm in my early 30s and I'm pretty average in the looks area. At my age I quickly realized that status >looks.

When I turned 30 I noticed an interesting change. I was getting way more female attention and I couldn't figure out why. I looked at my life from the outside and damn did I let my ghost slip. I had strayed away from my mechanic hobby so my cloths were getting nicer, I was driving a 50k car, my job was getting me in way good shape so my nicer cloths were fitting better. Jesus, my nice cloths were a bitch to wash and keep neet, I was taking my 50k car to the shop every other month because it was a pretty looking lemon. WTF am I doing.

Ghost mode activate. Now a few years later I've got things back under control. Invisible to the world once more. I now drive an 84 Subaru I picked up for 300$. My Challenger and Nissan stay on the race track, in the garage or in a car show like they should. Working on cars more have redeposited the rips and oil that keep me out of the public eye while I build wealth, cars and travel experience.

How do you fly under the radar? What are the subtle ways you tell society "Move along nothing to see here".