Got dumped

TheMungusOfHugh · 2016-12-25T05:56:49+00:00

Welcome to the club, a christmas eve dumping happened to me too and of course she already had her out all lined up and ready to go for months but she seemed to think christmas eve would be a wonderful time to make her schedule known, cold as fuck just like winter.
Awalt brother, fucking awalt. You are better off.

Taguroizumo · 2016-12-25T09:27:20+00:00

Please tell me you didn't get her an expensive gift

Hiromant · 2016-12-25T09:00:24+00:00

Nowadays a healthy attitude in any relationship is to know it's already over and to just enjoy it while it lasts. Paradoxically this makes you less needy and the relationship may last longer as a result.

siege342 · 2016-12-25T12:07:39+00:00

I feel you bud. My ex-fiancee left me the week of Christmas. Best this to ever happen to me. Found out later that after 3years together, she left me for another guy that dumped her after 2 weeks. She rode the CC, got pregnant, had a shotgun wedding and gained 100lb. AWALT

PinHunter65 · 2016-12-25T14:43:31+00:00

It's a Christmas miracle! Unlike the other men here, I'm not sorry to hear that. I'm happy for you.

Think in a alternative universe where instead of dumping you today, she's normal and happy. In a couple of years you get married, buy a house and have a kid. Then she decides to leave you and take your kid away. Now you have to pay for a kid that you're not allowed to see, that thinks you're a asshole because her mom told the kid you abandoned the family or whatever.

Dimensionaljumper982 · 2016-12-25T05:57:51+00:00

Sorry to hear that man. Best lesson I think to take from an experience like that is that... we can never depend on someone or something else outside of us to fulfill us. It can only come from within yourself on your own path.

With that said. What happened?

gods_bones · 2016-12-25T15:02:06+00:00

Wow, she is an idiot. Any woman with a brain in her head knows that January is the time to dump your slave, cash in and trade up. I guess she's hoping to score herself a new ATM machine by New Year. Perhaps she already has one waiting in the wings. Good luck milking that stone in the first 3 months of the new year when most people are broke as a joke after throwing all the money they earned away on parties and gifts.

byers18901 · 2016-12-25T13:32:01+00:00

Sorry to hear that man. Hopefully you had some fun with her while times were good.

Better you found out now than after wifing her up and popping out a few kids. I know it sucks but things will get better. Try to enjoy today. Take care of yourself brother.

fickle_fuck · 2016-12-25T13:49:45+00:00

No worries now, enjoy your freedom. I'm about ready to dump my GF because she's being a fucking drama queen and I'm running out of patience.

androenergy · 2016-12-25T16:12:36+00:00

They usually wait until after they unwrap the gift

LionelHutz4 · 2016-12-25T13:52:34+00:00

boredatwork666 · 2016-12-25T18:53:55+00:00

sleep with her friends

Raiden627 · 2016-12-25T19:18:47+00:00

She most likely had it planned for a while but they never choose a good time to do it. I had an ex who broke up with me on my birthday and found out it was with one of her coworkers who she told me 'not to worry about.' They are calculated snakes, the lot of them. Enjoy your new found freedom my man. There literally is no NAWALT - they don't exist.

hackableyou · 2016-12-25T06:05:50+00:00

I am sorry to hear that.

HIGHLORDOFSHITSTAINS · 2016-12-25T08:50:05+00:00

I found this out in june of this year. Never again. You'll be good brother. Stay focused on you and your hobbies. You'll be good.

victor_knight · 2016-12-25T10:40:50+00:00

I hope you at least got to pump that pussy a few times. Bareback would have been even better as you can't even do that with hookers.

cashmoney_x · 2016-12-26T03:40:12+00:00

The fact that you thought she was not like the others until her wants differed from yours says a lot more about how you think than it does about her.

Zegy · 2016-12-25T10:44:38+00:00

Sorry to hear this bro. just focus on yourself and enjoy Christmas with your family. If you want to use this place to vent then vent away. We have been there too.

lollipoopex · 2016-12-25T11:50:37+00:00

Amen.

mutageno · 2016-12-25T12:26:44+00:00

She did you a favor. Focus your anger phase into making yourself better. This doesn't have to be gym and books, but those are a good option. Fuck her.

JStheHammer · 2016-12-25T20:49:05+00:00

Dumping always goes up after xmas. Hold on to just get presents. Then dump.

RationalistFaith1 · 2016-12-25T21:24:12+00:00

The stupid cunt gave me the best present a woman could give you today

FREEDOM and truth pills (painful but oh so beneficial in the long run)

Now thank her by ghosting her 100% her.

If there is any anger don't waste it! use it in amassing power and getting your freedom from the empire

There is nothing that kills an ex-slut than a man who has used his time to gain power/independence. Keep ghosting her.

PinHunter65 · 2016-12-25T21:27:37+00:00

If you want to feel better, just go to the bar and get some ass. Itll show you that they all think, treat, and make you feel the exact same. Youll see that its all just a show they put on, they think THEY make you feel more special than any other woman could. But in reality, its all the exact same. Its a cookie store that sells all the different cookies in their store, but when you eat one, they all taste the same.

thrown1520 · 2016-12-25T22:57:26+00:00

A woman's heart is cold.

Onkel_Adolf · 2016-12-25T23:37:12+00:00

TNB.

JohnG0tti · 2016-12-25T14:17:51+00:00

You didnt need her, think of it that way.

SquireAshyen · 2016-12-25T18:24:44+00:00

Any plans for later? Sucks by the way dude but you'll forget about her in no time.

Title	Got dumped
Author	Dimensionaljumper982
Upvotes	43
Comments	52
Date	December 25, 2016 5:39 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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