You guys got room for one more. I'm done with it. I have lurked here occasionally but never really took things here seriously. But really after this last year I've come to agree with most everything here. And especially after my last weekend date.

Let me tell you that story first. I'm in my late 30s. Chick I was with was older but still within a normal 5 year age range. First off she tells me she is struggling from bad sleep. Taking lot of time to get ready. I tell her. Don't worry about it. No need to get super formal. I'm wearing shorts and tshirt. I go to pick her up. Guess what she spent the whole day struggling to get ready in. Yoga pants and a tshirt! Literally looked like she rolled outta bed 10 min before I got there. Movie blew. There isn't anything good in now anyway. Then dinner. Pretty good conversation. Though she brought up stuff like the hand maids tale and how it was super scary. Im sure this is just a typical view for most modern women. So I am fully intent on taking her back to my place. But she says now. And wouldnt feel safe. Blah blah. How insulting. Especially when we had a perfectly fine evening and she just told me about she was a strong independent woman. Who lived in Paris at one point when she was in college. Traveled to South America. Had her own house. Etc. Fine. I will take her back to her place. On the way I really ramp up touching. I will get her to invite me in. So when we finally get there in driveway. She whips off the seat belt and we start making out like mad. Victory is mine. I thought..... Then some headlights pull up behind us. I was like???. Then she says. "OMG its my parents". ..

So ya. I just got cock blocked by some 40 year old woman's 70 year old parents!! I let her out. And drove back home. She called on my way back home and apologized. Basically it was because she had her phone off all night at the movies and dinner. They were worried about her not answering. And at the time I thought it was refreshing that some broad wasn't on her phone the entire time. I wasn't mad. I wasn't humiliated. I think in that drive home I had found acceptance. That this was the last straw and I will commit 100% to myself. Doing things I enjoy and find interesting. I might be ordering a brand new dji drone and a fleshlight in the coming week.

Also another thing you guys are right about. I've always been friends with a number of females. They were all pretty cool back when we were young. But in the last few years I have really noticed they have become seriously bitter. They get fatter every year, still tons of college loans, always stressed out. Even if they do have a partner or house of there own. It's like they have each finally realized that they have to work. And will have to work for the absolute rest of their lives, just like men.

Well that's my story gents. Live long and go your own way.