So today i witnessed another classic example of cuckery on my lunch break. Guy is waiting to meet his girlfriend/wife/resource drain at a restaurant with flowers when she then shows up with her office Chad. Guy looked heartbroken but pretended to be cordial about it. They sit at the table across from me and proceed to have an awkward lunch as it is painfully obvious this dude was not expecting Chad’s company. When the guy went to the bathroom the girlfriend and the office guy were smirking at each other and laughing when he was out of sight. She puts the flowers on the chair next to Chad out of her way with a semi-disgusted look on her face and he looks at them a snickers.

It got me to thinking, most regular blue pilled people wouldn’t look at that situation and notice anything. They would shrug it off and say “oh they are probably just work friends.” But us here would know he’s already felt her insides.

I started to wonder about myself, having been one of those guys in the distant past. How long did it take me to fully digest the pill and see these things for what they are? It is near impossible to GYOW without first having that “aha!” moment, seeing just how stacked the deck is against regular guys who don’t know any better.

You cant really just read shit online and expect to internalize the truth. You need real life examples so you can put 2 and 2 together. Of course the goal of MGTOW is to do your own thing and put little stock in women, but it helps to know WHY you are doing it.

Most of us do because we have been hurt. You know, the whole “who hurt you?” thing. Some were cheated on. Some have been hurt more maliciously than others. Losing their kids/ home/ assets. Others have simply had enough of women’s shit and felt the reward wasn’t worth the risk. One of the smartest ways to approach things in life is to learn from other’s mistakes, and boy is there plenty of them around us.

However you get to this point, it isn’t usually overnight. It takes time for everything you read and everything you witness to sink in. Once it does, there is no going back because the things you have learned play out in front of you every day, you just happen to notice them a lot more now.

I will say this, its much better being the guy at lunch watching things happen than the guy with the flowers. Maybe some day he will be watching another guy saying “yeah, I was like that once too.”