Help me out gentlemen

DangZagnut · 2018-10-04T03:17:37+00:00

Your inability to get a GF doesn't make you MGTOW material, it makes you INCEL material.

No offense, just saying. MGTOW isn't where you go when you can't date, it's where you go when you don't want to be in traditional relationships anymore.

Now if you actively are choosing it, that's one thing, but since you're actively trying to remove the urge, then you still have the urge, mostly because you've hyper fantasized relationships and women into something they really aren't. Which may end up being your undoing.

You DIY stuff which means some single mother will want to put her hooks in you, you'll screw up and say you're inexperienced or something, and she'll move in for the kill.

You're right though, you'll lose your DIY projects, instead they'll be Do It For Her projects, and you will want to die.

redditloginfail · 2018-10-04T03:18:19+00:00

Good luck with that Christian girl thing. Search my post history to see how that worked out for me. I don't feel like writing that whole story out again EVERY time another shmuck comes in here thinking he'll find that one girl that's different.

iseehot · 2018-10-04T03:17:42+00:00

If another person's uncontrollable happiness is your motivation, maybe you should start there.

Infinitewisdom1984 · 2018-10-04T03:50:01+00:00

You're not a MGTOW. You're an incel. You can't get a girl to like you sexually - celibate, are bitter about this, and desire deeply this type of relationship with a woman - involuntary - to the point that it is your greatest and only motivation for life, and, finally, you believe you will somehow magically find a woman who will want a low status man who can't get women and be some wonderful unicorn on top of that for you because grandma and grandpa had that?

You're delusional. And certainly not a MGTOW. Come back when you realign your motivations and life goals. Otherwise, have fun on the incel subs that are around.

Throwaway5840923 · 2018-10-04T03:20:27+00:00

how can you possibly be motivated to be a financial and physical slave to a cunt that wants you to die so she can collect your life savings and give it to her next husband

honda_vfr · 2018-10-04T03:26:59+00:00

The problem is your thinking. We have been conditioned our whole life to think we NEED a women in our life. You have to break through that.

Until you do, there is no hope.

vikrant1993 · 2018-10-04T03:41:10+00:00

Don't you have hobbies or ambitions? Pursue them. Remember you're a human being and theres more to life then being in a relationship.

If you find that "perfect" girl, by all means go for it. But as another stated watch for warning signs.

But DONT, I mean ever think being in relationship will make you happy, you will lose yourself in the process to maintaining it.

It will kill you mentally and to a huge extent, financially.

jdutches13 · 2018-10-04T03:56:45+00:00

Honestly from reading this you are not MGTOW. and that's okay, but most of us here had girlfriends before, some had wives. I came to MGTOW before I knew it even existed. I was done playing the Russian roulette game of dating. Tired of giving my all to someone who would talk to other guys. I've been cheated on multiple times. Suicidal thoughts. I just couldn't understand how someone I would ANYTHING for could just so easily fuck or flirt with other guys....so I was done with it all, and decided to invest it all in myself

Sure, there are probably some girls still out there that might be decent. But finding them is like looking for a strand of hay in a needle stack

At the same time it is in their nature to wanna fuck or be with someone that is better then the guy the already have.....its biology can't fight that shit

For me, the only way to win is not to play..sometimes I entertain myself with women, and I still wanna fuck. But never emotionally invest in a women!

I would say go over to TRP to try and get yourself a few girls, but that shits gone now...thanks to feminism.. The only way I became MGTOW was because of all my experiences with women...if I hadn't been fucked over by so many girls I'd still be out there being an emotional tampon, blue billed cock sucker

maxfoiler · 2018-10-04T03:33:13+00:00

When you’re chasing after a dream like the “perfect woman” you can’t reason properly. I’ve dated around 20 woman seriously, and was married for five years once. There’s been a few times where I was perfectly content and happy with a woman and thought she was “the one” until she cheated, got massively fat, became suicidal, or just dropped me for no reason. In retrospect, there were plenty of warning signs but that desire you speak of blinded me from seeing them. As you get older you’ll start to think more with your head and your wallet and less with your heart and your dick. Go monk mode for a while, say a year or something. See how it feels. It will hurt at first, but once you settle in you start to value yourself for YOU instead of valuing yourself for what woman pays attention to you.

Title	Help me out gentlemen
Author	Throwaway5840923
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	October 4, 2018 3:13 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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