Guys I feel like I could use some help here. I got aimed by a woman and she's playing miss nice-friendly-interested-but-absent-from-time-to-time. Nothing new under the sun she's playing hide and seek to get me going after her, it's just that I am a male (monk) after all and a part of me would like to "play". I can control it and I'll let her fade until she goes aiming somewhere else, and I don't want to be a Chad (false accusations and so on, you know, plus I've been "sober" for about 4 years now). The point is, do you have any "acceptable" strategies to expose her intentions without playing it for too long? I usually let it all slide but it's getting harder with aging, a part of me is telling me (wrong) that I should give it a try before it's too late. I'm here to seek empathy. Thank you.