High school classmates hitting the wall

MarketWatcher9456 · 2018-12-03T19:05:23+00:00

Always a fun game. Makes me so thankful I got out unscathed.

TheObelisk · 2018-12-03T19:23:41+00:00

I've not looked up girls from high school, but i've noticed my friends and family have aged badly, but even the guys. When i was in high school i was fat and gross but now look better than i ever have. They were the opposite-- they were attractive, thin, ect and now they all look pretty bad. I'm 30 btw.

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2018-12-03T19:30:26+00:00

It’s fun watching girls I grew up with having to use more and more filters on their photos.

Trutherist · 2018-12-04T00:23:13+00:00

Yeah, the one who broke my heart right after high school had also gotten some kind of insurance settlement... we were kids, so $50,000.00 seemed like a lot of money at the time. (The lawyer took 1/3.)

Her mom actually called my mom because she didn't like me and said I was after her daughter for her money.

A couple of years later, I was buying multi family houses, had graduated college and lived on the beach while driving a BMW.

She now whines on Facebook about how bad the dating scene is and can't find a guy... perpetually unhappy, hit the wall hard and has a shit job with coworkers she hates and actually writes shit about on FB.

She can barely afford her rent and cannot afford to buy a Toyota from what she is posting online - my Porsche is still under warranty - bought it new. LOLz

I would kind of like to gloat - just once, but I'm happy and she is absolutely miserable. At the time of the breakup I was devastated. She went off and fucked my friend, then my other friend's boss...

No fucks given now.

Cosmohig · 2018-12-03T22:32:16+00:00

I'm 23. A girl I crushed on highschool got divorced at like age 19. (No kids) but she looks like a fat pig. She isn't the only one either.

Brad-Chadblood · 2018-12-03T19:41:37+00:00

It’s great isn’t it. Class of 07 myself. I find it amusing that the girls I had crushes on are so past there prime and my prime is just beginning.

Delita_Wasnt_Wrong · 2018-12-03T19:36:25+00:00

I’d say 1, maybe 2 girls in my class still looked good at 30. The rest were landwhales and/or had their shit diets and habits ruin them.

At 40? None of them looked good.

Toshiba1point0 · 2018-12-03T21:58:57+00:00

I got on FB a long while back to prepare for my 20th, I really was surprised how many were 100lbs over weight and drowning. Best repeated compliments to me: Dude, you look exactly the same! Most repeated observation: How come you never got married. Funny how that works.

InformalCriticism · 2018-12-03T20:59:20+00:00

It happened immediately after high school graduation for me. Throughout college one of my buddies from high school would message me saying things like, "you won't even recognize her"... And he was right.

0kool74 · 2018-12-04T01:35:57+00:00

I'm 4 years away from my 30th, and i can only imagine that a Friday the 13th Jason fucking Voorhess nightmare that shit is going to be. I was at my 20th and there were maybe 2 or 3 that managed to stay somewhat reasonably attractive. The rest of them wouldn't be able to generate a hard-on in a Viagra factory. But the most depressing one was definitely the head cheerleader......we'll call her AK. Now AK was tha fucking shit back in school......bout 5'5, blond hair, blue eyes, body built for sin and an ass that would make J Lo jealous. But HHHHHOOOOOLLLLLLYYYYYYY fucking shit Father Time put a serious rook on her ass. All those hard-on memories I had from high school.......instant ED when I saw what had become a fat cow. Even Zoloft and Prozac couldn't overcome that level of depression.

zorosolo · 2018-12-03T23:19:26+00:00

I ran into a girl from my high school a month ago while I was out with friends. She wasn’t that attractive before but she got fatter and didn’t look flattering at all. She was with her bf too who looked like a simp. The funniest thing is that I wasn’t really friends with her even though we had mutual friends. But when she saw me, she was excited and tried to start a conversation but I just didn’t care and gave no effort to engage with her.

MajIssuesCaptObvious · 2018-12-04T04:11:21+00:00

Exgf who was an absolute neck breaker is now at least 190 lbs. I can't describe how many men's attention she'd get. Men of all ethnicities and ages. Even elderly women complimented her on her beauty. BUT, it was all natural beauty, so she never got in the habit of working out and eating well. After she got pregnant by the guy after me, she lost it all. Definitely a dodged bullet, and I feel sorry for that dude.

Another college ex was just cute but chubby; still wasn't bad, though. Now she looks like an unkept mess and of course is out of shape. She tried manipulating me to marry her, became physically abusive, stalked me, came at me with a knife, threatened to press false charges, etc. I ran into her about a year ago at the mall. I was cordial, but shit, I look way better than her and was ashamed that I ever gave her the time of day. Hell, I could have done way better than her back then, but my confidence as a youth was low.

Then there are the women who were bully tomboys in high school who ribbed on everyone, including me. A few years ago, 1 rang me up at Walgreens, and another took my order at Taco Bell. I smiled a bit as I drove off in my Lexus. True story, gents.

OkPhilosophy1 · 2018-12-03T21:13:12+00:00

I'm not even thirty yet and a I've seen a couple girls from my late teens fall off already. The half-life expired, woke up one morning and the power had reduced by 50% already. Two girls in particular got hit hard by that really early 'eye socket skin tightness', one already has crows feet on par with a woman in her forties. Just bad luck there, she used to be extremely cute.

MattFoley79 · 2018-12-04T00:53:05+00:00

My high school must be an exception to the rule. I graduated in '97 and the vast majority of the hot ones from back then are still bangable now. Maybe the ones who blew up left Facebook?

viggyman · 2018-12-04T03:54:20+00:00

I'll be 30 soon. Class of '07 as well. This is very true. Every chick from my class looks rotten. Even the 25 year olds these days look 35 or older, i reckon it's their yolo lifestyle of no self restraint. The best part is that you aren't around to listen to them nag and blame about anyone but themselves for their life choices.

zubbs99 · 2018-12-04T04:39:57+00:00

I was amazed at my 20th reunion how many of the females had already gotten "work" done. The wall hits them fast.

avtarius · 2018-12-04T04:45:02+00:00

36 this year, haven't thought to look people up, althought I do have some buddies from back then who bring up the occasional ex-hottie or two.

I was conditioned from a young age to think ahead more than anything else, which has also helped me realise there's always a ready supply of fresh meat out there. Just enjoy what you want to at the time.

And yes, none from study days are appealing past ... 28.

magx01 · 2018-12-04T15:08:21+00:00

Fuck old classmates; let's look at my ex wife. We're the same age (37). I look 26-32 (depending on the day and who you ask). I actually seem to get better looking each year (this started about 6 years ago when my babyface actually started to work for me rather than against me and my beard finally decided to show up).

I work out, eat well, get lots of sun, live a very stress free life and it all shows. My dating pool is still girls in their 20's.

My ex wife? She held up okay until about 30 and now every year that passes she looks three years worse. Not just older; worse. It's shocking how far apart we have grown appearance wise. Lol and her dumbass new fiance thought I "fucked up" and he "won." HA.

Byron_Blitzkrieg · 2018-12-04T03:57:48+00:00

I'm 38 years old, I look like I'm in my mid-20s. Everyone in High School I knew, got married and hit that wall hard. There was one female who never got married but focused on her career, she looks the same, but that chick is void of personality and charm, I don't think she's human.
My point being, remain an island and you will never age.

Genericasianmale · 2018-12-04T02:19:06+00:00

The hot popular cheerleader got married out of hs and popped out 2 kids. She gained weight and doesn't look as hot as she used to. This hot asian I used to bang in hs got fat after high school and married a marine recently. He is a'lot younger than her and he is a simp. Another girl I used to know got married and then divorced a year later,because her husband said she got fat lol. Bunch of chads from school still live in my hometown as gym trainers and I make more money than them. Life is good. Mgtow is freedom!

0ddM0NK3Y · 2018-12-04T03:22:41+00:00

Kind of reminds me of my HS (ex)crush.

Had a crush on this girl back in HS. She liked me too. Everyone knew we liked each other. During summer time, our school had this summer job program for teenagers. One day I walked in the meeting area (office) to clock out and everyone was having a conversation about their age. The boss was super strict about our work hours and he never, ever allowed us to leave early. Not even a minute early. So I stayed and chat with my co-workers. My crush happily said that she's the baby of the group. My boss asked me how old I was and I told him I'm younger than she was by one month.

"No, no, no. You're lying" she said giggling. "Yeah, I am." I said. "No, you're at least 21 years old." She said. "The actual fuck?" I thought to myself. The entire room was quite. "Well, do you have your work ID?" Said the boss. "Err, no?" "You're such a liar" she said as she walked out the room.

Ever since then she completely ignored me. As if I was a ghost. I was so hurt by this.

Fast forward 7 years later I meet her again at McDonald's. "Oooh my gosh!!! [OddMonkey], is that you?? It's been so long! How are you?" She said. Me:"Fine, I guess." "Wow, look at you. You even grew a beard." One of her kid yells in the background "mom, ____ stole my fries...mom!!" She turns back and tell them to be quite. "So, how have you been lately?" Me: "Just work. Taking care of my mom. Nothing special...speaking of my mom, I gotta get this food to her asap." (I was lying. Them cheese burgers was for me.) Her: "we should get together and catch up sometime." Me thinking: "shhhhheeeeit" "ok,yeah, sure." Her: "it was nice seeing you again." Me: "like wise"

Not going to lie, she had an amazing body and she hasn't aged a bit. I thought about everything that happened and I concluded that I dodged a bullet in HS. It sucks, though. I wish things worked out differently.

Helstromme · 2018-12-04T04:07:53+00:00

Some look the same, just older.

Some hit the wall like a train.

Two actually look pretty good.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2018-12-04T09:04:59+00:00

Men, inspired by you I decided to check the biggest highschool crush I had. Fuck, she looks great and she still has that cheeky smile from back then. She's from one of those old Fisher islands in the Netherlands that now have been connected to the main land. They have a very different culture. She must be 32 now as well and still with her higschool sweetheart from when she was 15.. Pffff, thta might have been the unicorn lol.

Anyway, I still wouldn't take the risk nowadays.

Gears_Chris · 2018-12-03T21:32:49+00:00

This one arrogant guy I knew who was essentially a Chad got a girl knocked up and has since then gained weight after his six pack days. He's pretty chubby now. It's crazy how we can instantly find anyone now and see how they've changed and who they really are.

888777888777888 · 2018-12-04T02:28:53+00:00

My HS crush had me in beta orbit the entire time, and she was fat even back then, but her mother was Ambulocetus sized(her sister had missed that due to military service I think). I saw her at 24. She ate more than I did, and it pained me to look at her. I'm 31 now, and I haven't seen her for 3 years.
Another girl who I always had a crush on and who was beautiful, became a single mother in her 20's with a biracial kid. So hard to watch.
A childhood friend who was 5-8 years younger than me also became a single mother. She was raised by a single mother. Her child is named Damian, and he wants for nothing in this world, and is such a giant spoiled piece of shit, even at 6.
A family friend, who I always thought of as a MILF who never had children and only married and stayed with bad dudes, is now past middle 50's, age is deteroriating rapidly, family has died left and right(her brother died from an aneurysm), now I get to watch her move into the "cool wine drinking aunt" killing herself with alcoholism and singlehood, and her unrestrained and untrained Husky destroy all of her furniture continuously.
I weep for the future.

binkerfluid · 2018-12-04T03:15:20+00:00

you are probably right but sometimes I wonder how young most people here are when many of them (not you) seem like life is over at 30

Degausser89 · 2018-12-04T04:39:49+00:00

Eh, they may have gotten fat, but at least they’re not spending their nights looking up pictures of people they haven’t seen in 10 years so they can judge them.

Title	High school classmates hitting the wall
Author	celticlord88
Upvotes	146
Comments	39
Date	December 3, 2018 7:01 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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