From r/deadbedrooms

"I feel like I’m in a super similar position. My wife and I (I’m also a female) decided to open up our marriage a year ago.

Realizing that I enjoyed sex (she’s MTF trans) has been huge for me. We always had a lackluster sex life, and since her GCS it’s been a pretty dead bedroom.

Nobody would expect this of me though, I’m seen as a very upstanding rule following person. The few people I’ve told are shocked, but happy for me.

Congrats to you on working to find a life that brings you happiness and joy. 💕"

Dafuq I just read?