How do I stop wanting a girlfriend?

MXRNate77 · 2018-11-19T15:16:51+00:00

Get a gf for 2 months then you will no longer want a gf.

Edixo1993 · 2018-11-19T14:50:06+00:00

You can't stop it, but you can focus on other things. I don't mean video games and so, but real creative activities that make you feel good about yourself - exercise, work, learning, improving your skills etc. In my experience, that helps.

SomeGhostingGuy · 2018-11-19T17:20:58+00:00

How much money do you have in your wallet right now??

Take 80% out of it, open the window and throw it out to the wind. Like your PC and consoles or other hobby stuff? Throw that out too.

After that, go into the shower and rub one out, do it quickly and try to be very silent while doing so. Yup .. that is all you will get in the future.

After that, sleep this night on the couch. Also, set your phone to wake you up every full hour with a loud and annoying ring tone like .. "Baby Screams"

If this treatment does not work after one night, repeat for a week.

Btw. it does not matter if she is beautiful or a dog, all run on the same shitty OS.

lonewolfsigma8917 · 2018-11-19T14:53:37+00:00

Focus on yourself its not narcissism,its called self-development

underrated_kawasaki · 2018-11-19T16:03:07+00:00

Fuck attractive hookers, you’ll never want a “girlfriend” ever again. A girlfriend is just a prostitute that pretends to love you and costs you 100x more money in the long run (not to mention they don’t even fuck you whenever you want...)

Non-PC-Guy · 2018-11-19T14:54:22+00:00

The answer is simple. Never let feelings/desires dictate your decisions or what you want. Only reason and logic should guide your wants. You want a girlfriend (feel like one), but, in another sense, you don’t really want one because you want to “stop wanting a girlfriend”, (reason and logic). Just decide by the latter and then the conflict is over.

PubliusVirgilius · 2018-11-19T14:47:55+00:00

Well have you been in a long term relationship? If yes, just think about the negative aspects of it. Why do you think another ltr will be different?

And if you never been in a ltr, maybe you should try it and get the expirience.

Also you dont have to be in ltr or marriage in order to have sex with women.

Andpan11 · 2018-11-19T15:21:14+00:00

I'd say that finding a hobby you invest your time into that makes you proud is what helps me resist it though not fully.

user_miki · 2018-11-19T15:22:12+00:00

Make enough money and take an escort every week or month.

betterredthenwed · 2018-11-19T15:33:13+00:00

I'm surrounded by beautiful women everyday

Says who? I am humbled and awed by the beauty of the natural world. A queit stream in a tight valley near timber line. Where I can hear the water splash over glaciated rocks.

But that's my take. I wasn't born finding that beautiful. Some may find it desolate and forlorn.

You're the one telling yourself they are beautiful and you want them. But even that message is our culture, weighing us down.

GYOW: Find beauty that stirs your heart and soul. Train yourself to appreciate it.

betterredthenwed · 2018-11-19T16:29:37+00:00

Sure. I also appreciate women's bodies, but I trained myself to not associate that appreciation with the need for sex or a relationship.

Atton_Risk · 2018-11-19T16:40:35+00:00

Get yourself a doll they are more real than most girls

richbeezy · 2018-11-19T16:45:14+00:00

JERK OFF

DangZagnut · 2018-11-19T16:50:24+00:00

I really want to just not give a fuck any more

Then don't.

That's it. Part of not giving fucks, is to not give fucks. You have to decide not to do it.

veasel79 · 2018-11-19T20:50:52+00:00

Do you have a alexa or a Google assistant ? If so set it for a reminder of mind numbing daily nagging and complainy bullshit every 20 mins. Give it a few days the desire will wash away fast.

No matter how beautiful she is, there is a man that has had enough of her shit.

Friendlyfire8102 · 2018-11-20T00:57:22+00:00

Marry her

kiddojer · 2018-11-20T05:22:42+00:00

If you want a girlfriend go to Asia, it’s impossible to not get one, all you need to do is talk to them.

MegtowMonk · 2018-11-20T05:22:56+00:00

Fuck a hooker. It will make it all very unmagical.

Sandman10372 · 2018-11-20T10:22:42+00:00

Make more male friends. Nothing attracts women faster than a group of guys having fun and ignoring women. Once you have a fish on. Keep your exposure limited. 10 days a month, max. Don't neglect your guy friends. They still have priority. Soon as you have a "next level/move in together" talk. Move along.

Title	How do I stop wanting a girlfriend?
Author	Edixo1993
Upvotes	6
Comments	41
Date	November 19, 2018 2:44 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9yhclo/how_do_i_stop_wanting_a_girlfriend/
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