how does one fix a broken mind?

RomanTaco · 2019-05-05T20:53:11+00:00

Work Out. Make yourself feel better about yourself.
Remind yourself everyday that you’re better off single. Cram it into your mind.
Talk with others like you. You can all push through that mental stage together.
Hang out with bros. Remind yourself that THESE are the people that care about you.
Pursue your passion. It’s really stabilizing to work on something you love.
Stay away from dating for awhile. You shouldn’t push yourself through a relationship for a long time.

Best of luck.

Daman_1985 · 2019-05-05T20:53:57+00:00

After traumatizing stuff... You need to take your time, the time you need. Weeks, months, even years. Focus in other things, like work, hobbies, etc... Then after an amount of time you will feel better.

But I have to say that it's impossible to forget 100% the traumatizing stuff, it's gonna stick in your mind and define you in the future... But I think it's good because it's a "warning" we have for the future and for not repeat the same mistakes.

And this I think it can be applied in everything, not only traumas originated in relationships.

GrisBosque · 2019-05-05T21:35:42+00:00

Gotta realize theres only one direction of travel in time. Forward.

Life tends to be a chain of embarassments. Youre always getting screwed up, and 98% of the time its because you had a dream going that included one or more other humans, and they inevitably trashed you.

As Burroughs in Tarzan at the Earth's core pointed out: Anywhere there are humans, theres stife and disention...

ie the human condition.. caused by each person being an ego...

Everybody thinks theyre wonderful.. But the truth is its really operating on all the same rules as the Veldt... From herd animals to predators, to parasites, to scavengers...

What fools you is you dont see them because they look like nice-nice humans and put on acts.

But if you start observing your own thoughts continuously, you will quickly figure out theres a monster in your head thats always suggesting nasty things, and also a good guy who wouldnt do that shit.

You need to train the good guy side to be aware of the monster side and to be who is in control. And who realizes that its the monster talking and banish it.

if you do this repeatedly enough pretty soon the monster abates and just tries to sneak in once in awhile when you arent watching...

its knowing good from evil and choosing to do your good mind.

Whats going on, is we are all dealing with people who listen to their monsters and just use the good guy to produce a front...

The best advice I've ever heard on this came from JC....

"Live apart and pray."

Its that bad! and youd better be praying for them and yourself, because everyone has the monster.

Also the observing your own thoughts came from JC.... I used it for years not knowing that....

But discovered it reading the Bible. there are three different authors who tell the story of the last supper.

only one of them remembered to tell that part. the other two ommited it, even though JC said the wine and waifers tradition was to remember that specifically.

And of course mainstream religion never mentions it...

Tame your monster.... Never give an inch to that bastard!

And on depression, it could be low blood sugar... Try using a sugar hit.

I discovered that one, one morning at work... was depressed, but stopped in a store and bought a maple bar doughnut....

And hit the road again driving truck, and realized minutes after eating it that my attitude changed and I felt fine....

Dont forget to brush your teeth after sugar... it really does rot your teeth...

Now days I know if I feel down that its low blood sugar... and I fix it. and my sons both have the same problem, discovered it themselves etc.

Get some jelly beans or halloween candy corn.... first aid for depression!

and good luck!

its a jungle out there!

😂

RedPilledSimp · 2019-05-05T21:02:38+00:00

By using your mind and ask 1 simple question: what does she has to offer me?

"duh, Simp!!! pussy!!!" my response question: what pussy can't you rent? I.o.w. pussy = pay. Either pay for a hooker straight away as the cheap route for your 25 seconds of glory or pay vastly more for the harpies out there, draining all of your resources.

TooAwareToCare · 2019-05-05T21:06:02+00:00

Radical strategic change.

At your own pace, find yourself.

Deep understanding is freedom.

Do the hard choice, face your suffering willingly so that you can overcome it.

Do not, I repeat, do not run away from your suffering.

Take on the trauma willingly, suffer willingly.

It makes you stronger in ways you wish you could know right now.

You have been touched by the devil, by pure evil, malevolence manifest.

Discover within yourself your capacity for earth scorching growth, self destruction and self realisation.

krugerand9 · 2019-05-05T21:15:07+00:00

how long since you broke up bro?

sagilny · 2019-05-05T21:45:54+00:00

Find a motorcycle that attracts you. Buy the motorcycle. Join a motorcycle club.

You never see a bike parked at a psychiatrist's office do you?

yooshio · 2019-05-05T22:11:01+00:00

That's too broad of a question. Get into the weeds so you can receive some decent advice.

impirepro06 · 2019-05-05T23:52:37+00:00

What helped me was being aware of my thoughts and feelings. Be aware of what you’re thinking when you feel bad or depressed.

You can do one of two things at that point. Stop thinking for a moment. Ignore all thoughts and focus on just the negative feeling and move that feeling into your chest where it turns into strength and confidence. Once you feel better then resume thoughts. .

Or the easier way is to find another thought that feels good. Thoughts trigger feelings. We choose which thoughts we focus on and that turns into emotions. Negative thoughts trigger negative emotions like depression, sadness, undeserving, not worthy, anger, etc. There is a positive and negative to every thought and everything. When you start becoming aware and paying attention to what thoughts you focus on then it becomes easier to change that focus to something better.

What thought about yourself do you focus on the most when you feel bad?

20182019_Throwaway · 2019-05-06T18:58:25+00:00

Be patient, and loving to yourself.

Title	how does one fix a broken mind?
Author	snakeeyes124
Upvotes	14
Comments	17
Date	May 5, 2019 8:46 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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