I need help

Eagleburgerite · 2018-05-19T21:53:51+00:00

Let’s not deal with a temporary problem(s)(school, money, etc.) with a permanent solution (suicide).

First off you need to be physically active. Start takin walks if going to the gym is not possible.

Second you need to work spiritually. Whether that is church meditation or even those walks, you must connect with the infinite energy of this universe.

Third you need to plan your work and work your plan. Figure out what it is you want to do (only you can know that) and put 100% into it.

Forth is you need to be disciplined. If you’re not improving yourself or enjoying yourself you’re wasting your time.

Lastly is to not over think it. You’re likely young and ambitious and the ambition is just getting the best of you right now. In time it will all smooth out.

Hope his helps in some general way.

bdking64 · 2018-05-19T21:52:57+00:00

well. Let me start with. your young. you do not start rich or even on the better end of comfortable. I can say this because i am a 54 yo mgtow. Divorced, 3 kids. paid 22,500 a year in child support. yet hear i am and i am doing OK. There is to much to explore and see and just enjoy in this life to give it away. Money is not always required. Look at the guys on here that enjoy a tent and a lake or any campsite. 15 bucks usually can get you a site to pitch a tent. The other thing, stop thinking you have to be rich right now. Go wait tables, tend bar what ever. Do not get involved with women or single moms. Spend some time once you have an income of some sort in what you might want to do. Maybe it is not college. Maybe it is a trade. Electrician, plumbing, welder all in high demand these days. There is no rule says you have to get a college degree. Find the things you enjoy and do those. As long as it is legal, if your drinking, drugging or what ever, stop. get help if need be. The best advice I can give. Is learn to like you for you . Not what other people want you to be. This does not mean freedom to be a jerk face. A true and good man has high ethical and moral standards. Right from wrong. Hope this helps.

AllUpInYoGirl · 2018-05-20T01:26:24+00:00

I used to be right there with you, and it freaking sucks. Talk to some friends, try not to be alone, it really helps to get that suicidal edge off, and find some small work that will keep you busy and bring in income. I dropped out of college as well, and joined the military, fast forward to present and I‘m living solo with some options for the future. Do not feel bad about dropping out, its happened to so many of us here and its silly to base our worth on that shit.

blaksunmgtow · 2018-05-20T11:07:59+00:00

Renee Descartes said (paraphrase): if you're lost in the woods, pick a direction, and walk in a straight line and keep walking, and you will find your way out.

Amazon is your friend. Read! Learn to force yourself to read, like exercise, begin slow.

As you continue to read, you will develop a number of mental skills, like mental dexterity (your brain will create more neurons to handle the new task), and the mental dexterity will lead to mental discipline, and your brain will naturally find things that it wants to know more about. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO FINISH A BOOK, BETTER YET, YOU DO NOT NEED TO UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING YOU READ. When you get this into your head, then you're ready to begin.

All the success you need for the next five years you will find by making your brain stronger. After this, come back and ask for more advice.

Title	I need help
Author	bartmichaelds
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	May 19, 2018 9:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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