Before I found this sub Reddit I was kinda on the fence. I always knew women were messed up, I honestly believed at one point that there were decent good women but after reading and sharing all the horror stories on here from my experiences and other men of different generations and races stories, there is no unicorns. Once I accepted that and decided to join reality and not what I want the world to be I’m doing a lot better and now I don’t fall for the traps that I used too. Now I don’t go out of my way for women. Now when they contact me asking for freebies and help I call them out on it. Instead of forgiving women who hurt me I tell them to go. Sometimes I do get lonely but not like I used too. I don’t get as upset like I did a decade ago. I’m thankful for this sub Reddit it literally saved my life.