I’m depressed.

michaelkc03 · 2018-06-30T01:47:56+00:00

In all honesty there’s no telling what will happen in the next 10 years. Personally, I believe the pussy market is on the verge of crashing. In other words Once men have an alternative to sex (sex robots) women will be forced to clean up their act. I wouldn’t count on it though, just focus on yourself and becoming the best you can be.

Don’t try to escape your feelings of depression, this a part of the process of unplugging. You’ve been spoon fed a lie your whole life, it’s time to spit that shit out. Withdrawals buddy

emoprairiedog · 2018-06-30T04:37:36+00:00

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DangZagnut · 2018-06-30T01:39:05+00:00

It makes my life seem a bit more lonely and less fulfilling.

Why do you believe that? Who put that in your head anyway?

But the need to breed and pass on our genes has been programmed into us from generation to generation.

The urge to fuck has been programmed into you. Breeding and passing on genes is a societal invention.

For an evolution standpoint, those who had a higher urge to fuck had more kids. Those who really had an urge to fuck had more sex and even more kids. Those who hated fucking had zero kids.

So all the kids made have more and more urges to fuck. It's a hormonal cascade, but it's not an urge to pass on genes. Passing on genes is the result of the urge to fuck, and those genes that passed down also have an urge to fuck.

The population with the greatest urge to fuck will overtake a population with less urge to fuck.

The whole passing on genes desire is a societal invention. The urge to fuck is a positive feedback loop which make more babies, who in turn want to fuck which make more babies who also have an urge to fuck.

That having been said, culture and memes can be just as powerful in social creatures as biology and genes.

I’ve always thought that one day I’d be an amazing dad and have children I could bond with.

Or you could have a little shit like me who never calls or writes.

Kids start out great, when you're their world and they have no external influences, but once you're worn down, send them off to school to get "educated", they spend more time learning from the internet than from you, they go downhill fast. Maybe I travel in shitty social circles, but I can't think of anyone that has more than a passing relationship with their parents. Mostly a holiday obligation thing.

It all just seems like I’m waking up from one long ass dream now.. as if everything I’ve been wishing for has been a fairy tale the entire time.

That is a shame, but I'd blame the people who put the stupid idea in your head that such magic was possible. It's like teaching your kids about Santa Claus, it's a fantasy that does not reflect reality correctly.

Can you get married and have kids? Sure. You just have to be really really wanting to have that, be willing to change your life completely, and pick women who don't make fun girlfriends, and who even you might not completely be attracted to, but who can make good mothers. Do they exist? Sure, but you'll have a poor chance finding them on instagram, at the bar, or wherever. The qualities that make a good girlfriend are usually not the qualities that make a good wife and mother.

HonoluluLion · 2018-06-30T03:33:15+00:00

I feel you, bro, I think I felt the same way after becoming mgtow years ago, but now I can't even imagine wanting a girlfriend or kids. I think the more you realize the bad shit you get to miss out on by not having kids or a wife, the more you'll like being mgtow

laptopdragon · 2018-06-30T04:11:23+00:00

simply born at a pivotal time where the shit is hitting the fan.

Keep your head up though, because nature finds a way, and with every downturn, comes upturns. They're not visible yet, but time will unveil a million answers.

or our robotic overlords will wipe away the bullshit and begin the age of ai.

gods_bones · 2018-06-30T05:50:16+00:00

Do you think it's fair to force people to be born in this horrible planet filled with death and destruction and pollution and terror and oppression just so you can have someone to "bond" with and make the remaining years you have here better for your own benefit?

Have you ever spent 5 minutes thinking about the horrible quality of life your children would be forc d to suffer for the next 50 years after you yourself are gone?

You brought them into this world for a lifetime of torture so that you could enjoy a few decades before dying and abandoning them to suffer the horrors of this world all by themselves as it gets worse and worse every year.

People are so stupid and selfish. This is why you see parents getting shittier every year and each generation growing up more miserable than the last. My most important role in life is to make sure my precious sperm, the most valuable substance on Earth, can never be stolen from my body to rob consciousness from the void and create new slaves for society to exploit.

DrillWormBazookaMan · 2018-06-30T01:45:41+00:00

Hi depressed, I'm drunk. How are you?

Beebs81 · 2018-06-30T09:24:26+00:00

Sorry to hear you are struggling champ.
Anyone who has taken the red pill has most likely at some stage felt just like you. I'm 36 and exactly like you, desired all those things.
The men here are right, a woman is not going to fulfil that void or make you any more happy than you are now. Chances are they will make things worse. They add stress by introducing problems like worrying if they will cheat, their spending habits, their mood swings, their unrealistic expectations.
My biological urge wants to date, fuck, marry someone and have children but my common sense says that it's not going to happen because you won't find what you are looking for. Instead you will find a much tougher road than if you were to go your own way.
I invest my energy more on myself, family and friends and it's really paid off. I'm looking at taking a year off work to travel, relax and do some hobbies. I could never have done that supporting a woman's lifestyle and habits.
If you feel lonely, remember there are married men out there more lonely than you. There is nothing wrong with being 'alone'. Fill that up with hobbies, friends, passions. A divorce can make you feel very lonely.
Post more, comment more on here if you need to express yourself or get something off your chest. There are a lot good and wise men in this space.

heartbreakmgtow · 2018-06-30T05:51:14+00:00

You could pretend your gay with a like minded buddy, share an apartment and get a kid that way.

TXRudeboy · 2018-06-30T06:09:38+00:00

Honestly, you can’t trust bitches. They are worthless whores but they can be useful.

QuadraticLove · 2018-06-30T06:32:55+00:00

Damn, I'm in the same boat. Shit hurts, man.

Setari · 2018-06-30T09:22:38+00:00

I was you at 19.

Got together with a woman at 19.

Six years of laziness on her part and bullshit made me what I am today.

Go date first and then come back. Seriously. You will be running back here within the first hour of that date, I guarantee it.

Graypube88 · 2018-06-30T09:42:55+00:00

Lol you serious? My depression soon turns into Joy the minute I realize that I have no wife or kids.

BattleDuck289 · 2018-06-30T12:23:57+00:00

I would rather struggle to deal with the harsh truth than marry someone and be used and abused. It sucks, but this is truly the best path to take.

JackSkell0255 · 2018-06-30T17:49:24+00:00

Depression is a hole in your psyche that any relationship can't fill.

For me, it was self-improvement. Self-improvement in my work life (education / advancement) and self-improvement in my personal life (fitness and pursuit of enrichening hobbies). And, I kept these lives separate, so if one side was not going well, I'd have the other to buoy my spirits.

Your happiness is dependent on you alone, not others, and if you don't like who you are now, and are depressed, I found self-improvement to work for me.

Now that I am old, I advise young people to move through their life like a shark, always moving forward, always working towards being the alpha. If you stop forward progress, you will die.

You will ultimately become a different person, and that is life-changing enough to fight depression, at least for me.

Kurrygohan · 2018-06-30T20:06:10+00:00

I can empathize, I’m just beginning to wholly accept that but despite the pain time and small victories will slowly allow you find internal peace.

throw_7 · 2018-07-01T04:50:05+00:00

as if everything I’ve been wishing for has been a fairy tale the entire time.

Welcome to the real world.

It makes my life seem a bit more lonely and less fulfilling.

It doesn't have to be. Pursuit the things that make you happy and are not self destructive.

bettermyself1 · 2018-06-30T16:12:18+00:00

Yes its unfortunate this is the world we live in now. And once you know this things will never be the same for you.

You will allways know the things to look for, they will now be there.

Its allways the unpluging from the matrix that allways hurts.

There is one positive note to this. And that is you will not end up used, betrayed, cheated, cucked fucked over, lied to, abused, icelled, and broke from childsupport and alimony payments by a woman. You now have control over your destiny.

OptionsReprimanded · 2018-06-30T04:50:53+00:00

The depression you is an atmosphere created by judges and attorneys.

Title	I’m depressed.
Author	LeZeroZodiac
Upvotes	53
Comments	37
Date	June 30, 2018 1:27 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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