I'm done

Jcart105 · 2017-07-19T20:09:19+00:00

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silive · 2017-07-19T20:00:20+00:00

When in doubt, always refer to the Briffault's law. There is no woman who will like you for you but only for what you can give her in order to advance her own (ulterior) goals.

mrscene1 · 2017-07-19T20:18:15+00:00

I get goosebumbs everytime I see another man has been saved. Welcome!

DrooganLeader · 2017-07-19T22:22:54+00:00

Never date single moms, ever. They are the highest risk to screw you over.

Titaniumbass · 2017-07-19T21:13:45+00:00

I "waited" to marry later (I was 29) thinking I could "find the one" 16 years later, "the one" turned out to be AWALT. I'm 53 now, 3 kids and several houses, cars, ect. later they all CLAIM to be "the one", but are not. NEVER wife up a slore.

JayJayEcks · 2017-07-19T19:55:00+00:00

Got out of a 5 year relationship with a stubborn, bitchy, controlling single mom who didnt let her mask slip until the last few months.

Yep, they are good at hiding that part of themselves.

socialdominantcom · 2017-07-19T21:38:27+00:00

Holy fuck... Another story that is so similar to mine...

One of these days I'll write my own post with details but I can't believe how many similar stories I read.

I'm 32. Had a relationship with a single mother for 5 years. Broke up few months ago. Now I'm with a younger girl (29) and she's playing her role by the book... I'm not 100% MGTOW yet (honestly I don't know if I'll ever be) but the last 2 years I've been here has changed my reality 100%

fearganfadhb · 2017-07-19T23:56:51+00:00

Co-captain? Try drunken sailor who's trying to steer your ship towards a fucking rock before she jumps onto some pirate's boat with half your swag.

RogueRenegade · 2017-07-19T23:08:24+00:00

Ugh, single moms, disgusting! They sometime vaginally discharged some chad's old std infested baby batter, that's fucking revolting on any how you look at it. But that's just me.

PabloEscoba · 2017-07-20T00:24:52+00:00

That should cure your stupid fetish for single moms. Stop being a cuck.

Reprogramming_Life · 2017-07-19T20:05:43+00:00

Unicorns don't exist, even if they did they'd still be horny.

TVTestPattern · 2017-07-19T21:37:38+00:00

I have dreamed a dream, and now that dream is gone from me.

FreeManIsFrank · 2017-07-20T00:29:14+00:00

Single moms are only good for easy sex.

IslandicFreedom · 2017-07-19T22:53:47+00:00

Main problem you will struggle with is a need for companionship.

I would say while steering your ship, keep a lookout on the horizon for any "unicorns (or close enough)" that might appear. I say this because then there is no cold / hot decision to be made. It's just natural -> right now I'm single until something amazing comes along.

Now don't kid yourself - EVERY woman out there has some agenda. The key then is to find an agenda which suits you.

I would also argue (and you know I'm right) that after a certain amount of time passes, any relationship might develop some staying power. In the sense that if you're not involved with an above average attractive woman, her chances of branch swinging lowers with age / time.

So it could be that you find someone - perhaps not perfect but close enough, someone who time can mellow and change and your relationships kinetic energy over time can get you through hurdles, while at the same time create some staying power.

I mean, I'm all for avoiding bitches and not every women (literally) is a feminist cunt who will sell you under a bus (subject to fine print ofc).

NietzscheExplosion · 2017-07-19T20:46:43+00:00

Stick with it. If you really need to save up 60-80k and hire a surrogate.

mercwithamagicsword · 2017-07-19T20:59:57+00:00

I just don't think there is a woman out there without ulterior motives. The fairytale doesn't exist.

exactly

cleats4u · 2017-07-20T00:42:54+00:00

Man...I am so happy for you. You are going to have a long, prosperous life. Doing what you want to do, not taking shit off of anyone. You are the captain of a fine undamaged vessel. Take care of it. It's the only one you got.

Herpnderp145 · 2017-07-20T01:17:15+00:00

Not only women, but then you'd have to deal with her mother and any other woman like a sister and/or Aunt they'd scheme with. You're the Coalminer, they're the Directors. Always keep that in mind.

RedSmokeOnTheWater · 2017-07-20T01:42:17+00:00

Tried another relationship with a single mom, same deal

Well there's your #1 problem. You will always be second fiddle to the kid, and quite possibly to the baby daddy because he'll have a say about her and your schedule.

A unicorn, aside from basically not existing, would have to not be a single mom, and make good $$$ by herself, otherwise you can never trust her to actually like you.

ikhwan_arif · 2017-07-19T23:42:26+00:00

Welcome man. Congrats on taking control of your life.

ultrasuperthrowaway · 2017-07-19T23:51:01+00:00

It's human nature if you gave anyone enough free shit they feel they become entitled to it

phreshstart · 2017-07-20T00:33:20+00:00

If a I met the unicorn, would it even be worth it? If I met a woman who liked me for me

I suggest you learn about the chameleon capabilities of women. Other than that, welcome to MGTOW brother. I expect you to go trough some red pill rage, but after that it's all a smooth stress free ride.

amcynic · 2017-07-20T01:09:50+00:00

Welcome, brother.

Juxtapointer · 2017-07-20T01:41:58+00:00

It's good to see a weary traveller finally find himself not lost anymore. Welcome, brother.

Onkel_Adolf · 2017-07-20T02:56:26+00:00

Get a vasectomy before you meet the next one.

TheArtOfTheKek · 2017-07-20T03:10:38+00:00

Now you're a Reddit fag that 4chan hates. Welcome faggot.

iwanttheblanketback · 2017-07-20T03:45:45+00:00

Not a co-captain but the 'man-behind-the-curtain'.

Oz70NYC · 2017-07-20T04:04:45+00:00

There are no unicorns, only stags.

Tokyogaikoku44 · 2017-07-20T04:50:13+00:00

I don't know what I'm going do in the future, but I will probably shelter wealth and get into a coparenting situation with a ltr and keep my own pad. I'm just not into all the transhumanist sex robot Shit. Or I might just stay a monk. Whatever I do it will be for me and not to save the State.

ififcanIhaveacoatplz · 2017-07-20T06:14:05+00:00

Well single moms are the bottom barrel bitches that you avoid like bubonic plague my dude

TryDoingSomethingNew · 2017-07-20T03:18:04+00:00

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Albacorewing · 2017-07-20T03:46:59+00:00

If you got in a time machine and went back to 1984, you would find that most of the available women in the West over the age of 30 then were single moms. The number has gone up somewhat, but the basic issue has not changed much.

mrp_1844 · 2017-07-20T06:10:03+00:00

The fairytale doesn't exist.

You got off very cheap.

gradchad · 2017-07-20T09:09:56+00:00

5 years????????????? And then suddenly you're MGTOW?

Theworld1987 · 2017-07-20T09:23:59+00:00

How did you have a five year relationship and not get fucked over by the courts

mdcrubengonza · 2017-07-20T10:41:59+00:00

Congrats on making the jump. I too came from a controlling single mother's house and had to heal. Here's a video that can help: How to Deal with Asshole Mothers.

Also, you are correct in your assumption, all women are worthless. Their worth is a direct relationship in what you invest into them, which could, quite understandably, not be a fruitful effort.

Focus on yourself and that's it.

stringedbeams · 2017-07-20T14:40:39+00:00

single moms besides widows are instant red flags

LynxLogix · 2017-07-20T14:57:47+00:00

Everyone has ulterior motives. The key is to be upfront about everyone's expectations. The problem is everyone lies.

Izzenw · 2017-07-20T17:14:13+00:00

Welcome brother. We will always be here for you.

Afab67 · 2017-07-20T18:56:29+00:00

Crispy, At one point I was Mr. Blue Pill. Married to a single mother (really attractive) with a 14 year old daughter, both of whom were basket cases. I was going to be Mr. White Knight and charge in and show them both how good life could be and we would all bond together. 7 years later, the daughter gets arrested for domestic violence (fighting it out with mom) and wife starts screwing another, richer man. Divorced followed, naturally. I got out clean. No alimony and we had no kids, so no child support. All I left with was the dog and my clothes. Fast forward four years later to the present. Post red pill. I am content. My life is good. My independence is back. My money is my own. I am officially retired from dating. NEVER AGAIN. Just wished I figured it out sooner like most of you guys have.

Title	I'm done
Author	mgtow_idgaf
Upvotes	202
Comments	67
Date	July 19, 2017 7:51 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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