I'm looking for some insight.

realdealdawg · 2020-01-22T04:52:45+00:00

Start working out, improving yourself, and have fun doing hobbies. Just do your thing man whatever you wanna do

PatriarchyRules · 2020-01-22T04:51:15+00:00

You can try spirituality - the ultimate tool of unconditional love, where you can focus on everyone rather than just you and your partner👍

Lucius_Faust · 2020-01-22T08:01:39+00:00

Hmm....

Maybe try something with hobbies you have and look for people with common interest there ? If you play co-op/mmorpg video games and get to a group/guild/company or whatever maybe there you'll find a sociable one ? If you hit the gym maybe there are some guys doing exercises longer than you and ask them for advice ? Or maybe at work there are some "ok" guys you could go drink beer and hang out after work ? There are many possibilities depends on your after school/work activities to meet people with common interests.

And about girlfriend I believe you've found wrong reddit community, because people are giving examples to stay away from women. But if you really want to have a girlfriend...well....hope you'll get out with all your limbs - especially if you're going to bootcamp, you know...military wife's and girlfriends stories.

As for DnD my fellow player, you should check Discord servers and roll20 website. Roll20 gives you opportunity to create or join rpg sessions via internet. My friend, who is also GM usually found via Discord community of people looking for RPG sessions. Maybe there you'll find people you look for.

And what did I do when I was 19 ? Holy shit it was so long time ago xD Well aside going to school (last year of high school before my law school) I was playing video games with my friends, learning english and german plus watching anime. It was also time when I was reading a lot of fantasy books like Hyperion Saga. And also 19 was time when I wasted time for my second girlfriend and didn't expected were it will come in future with it :-/

zennacko · 2020-01-22T09:56:31+00:00

Get a dog, become John Wick if said dog gets killed.

GreyFox9842 · 2020-01-22T04:48:52+00:00

If there are any questions, just ask.

QuantumSanta · 2020-01-22T05:25:32+00:00

Get involved in something you are passionate about, it doesn't matter whether it is exercise, sports, a class or whatever. You need to find people with similar interests and tastes.

Forget having girlfriends at 19, you need to build yourself up as a man, and take care of things like your finances and education.

Start off with some sport, bodybuilding or some form of martial arts. That will give you confidence and strength.

Build up your self-esteem through reading and study.

drago8452 · 2020-01-22T05:56:44+00:00

Damn... only 19 and already talking like this?

pwnzusauce · 2020-01-22T17:33:22+00:00

Consider getting a pet for company and affection. A dog, cat, whatever. You won't get that with current year woke feminist wahmyn.

Fleshlight or similar pussy pockets feel better than the real deal, if you want to go all out consider a doll. Also no buyer's remorse after the deed, you just wash it and put it away. No need to drive it home and keep in touch then fear for the next 30 years for a false rape accusation.

I was lost for a while, I had no defined longterm goals and was throwing cash on useless shit. That changed when I made a goal to travel the world by sailboat. Soon I started putting almost all of my paycheck away, so in about 5-10 years I will be able to execute it. The hardships along the way makes it even more worth it.

Try to find something (other than pussy) that inspires you. Good luck.

Batman_MGTOW · 2020-01-23T02:53:38+00:00

Let me ask you something.

What is it that you find so appealing about modern women? Is it their feminist personality? Is it their inability to stay loyal? Is it their masculine dominant behaviour towards most men? Is it their disease ridden holes that have been run through by hundreds of guys? Is it their entitlement to your money, time and resources? Or are you searching for someone to run your life because you are unable to be a man and make decisions by yourself?

If you are truly just interested in the companionship aspect of relationships then you should just go out and make some friends because they would be more able to help you.

A woman can only love you for the things that you provide for her, her love is dependent on your behaviour and how much money, time and resources you are willing to sacrifice. Now maybe you will say that you dont care, that you are willing to sacrifice everything, but what if they really have nothing to offer? You see my friend, women dont care about us as a person and they never have, to them, we are only disposable utilities.

The reason why I say this is because if a woman can only love you for what you can provide, that means she is actually using you to get free stuff, if a woman is just using you then that means she doesnt really love you so her love is really just well hidden manipulative tactics to make you hand over your stuff to her. That is how women are able to dump men without remorse, this is how they are able to destroy us and move on with their lives because they dont care about us. What you are suffering from right now is male mother need, you are like a little boy who is needy and sees women as a mother figure and that is a very dangerous mindset to have. This is how women end up taking control of your life. I know men who are stuck in relationships where they serve her like a queen, and she doesnt give them any respect. In fact, she puts her own friends at a higher level of priority than her boyfriend and doesnt even allow him to have any friends.

The problem about letting women do this to you is that women dont respect men who dont respect themselves, if you are too needy, then you will be easily manipulated and that means she is going to walk all over you and take as much as she wants from you while barely giving anything back.

So if you want a real solution, go out there and make some (male) friends because they are the only ones who will not treat you like shit for being nice and wanting to spend time with them. However, unless they intend on staying single forever, you will have to always be on the lookout for new friends because people will always come and go, that is just life. You have to learn to network well by talking with as many people as possible, this can even open you up to new job opportunities you would have never gotten without those people you met.

Title	I'm looking for some insight.
Author	GreyFox9842
Upvotes	6
Comments	42
Date	January 22, 2020 4:48 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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